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@Jynx what's a butterfly house? I'll if I can get a picture on Google for you
Right now I am angry what's the point in a helpline? Can't even help me when I am feeling suicidal am I not worth it?
I give up
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Sorry to hear you feel like that tonight @Sunnyside226 tell me about somethin unrelated to take your mind off things maybe What’s your favourite food
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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What did you have for dinner
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JynxModerator
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@Sunnyside226 A butterfly house is a place where they keep butterflies - so you can visit and there's soooo many butterflies flapping about, and some might even land on you! Very cool, highly recommend if you have one nearby!
I am sorry, sounds like a difficult experience. Sometimes we just don't get the right person on the other end, which can be very frustrating.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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@Sunnyside226 this isn’t the first time you have been suicidal and I dare say probably won’t be the last, but what coping skills have you used so far to survive the other days that you can use tonight? Because you have had it through this feeling before right? What is different about today? I like I, I want you here and I now you got it in you, you have proven it time and time again
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
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@ArraDreaming favourite food is meatballs or crumb chicken
Dinner tonight nothing yet what's for dinner for you?
@Jynx why do you care so much? The person left didn't even ask anything
All I said was I am suicidal and everything she left now I just feel a shit person
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
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@ArraDreaming
River
Music
Driving
Showers
Friends
Sometimes art I don't really do art
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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And you know this is why I love this community because most of us including me have been in your shoes, and we are still here and able to tell you that it gets better @Sunnyside226 I came pretty close in 2015, I don’t share that with anyone really…. but I’m still here and I am glad I am still here because shit got better in married with 3 kids in a job I love gardening, riding bikes, getting out bush and connecting to country, far out man please stick it out dude because on the other side there’s this whole world that will open for you @Sunnyside226
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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We had carbonara! You may laugh.
I’m doing what I call the nightly security guard duties, I have a little spot in our hallway that I sit and tell my kids to go back to bed about 45 times a night, they still never learn that I’m sitting right outside their bedrooms. It’s mostly for the older one, our middle kid (3) will usually go out like a light while we’re in there, fall asleep on one of us and we have to sneak out lol
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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What one of those things can you focus on for a bit @Sunnyside226 even just for the next 30 mins?
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