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Support for Flowerlove22

Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.

I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.

Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.

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@ArraDreaming that sounds cool 😎.

@Jynx what's a butterfly house? I'll if I can get a picture on Google for you

Right now I am angry what's the point in a helpline? Can't even help me when I am feeling suicidal am I not worth it?

I give up

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Sorry to hear you feel like that tonight @Sunnyside226 tell me about somethin unrelated to take your mind off things maybe
What’s your favourite food

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What did you have for dinner

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@Sunnyside226 A butterfly house is a place where they keep butterflies - so you can visit and there's soooo many butterflies flapping about, and some might even land on you! Very cool, highly recommend if you have one nearby!

I am sorry, sounds like a difficult experience. Sometimes we just don't get the right person on the other end, which can be very frustrating.

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@Sunnyside226 this isn’t the first time you have been suicidal and I dare say probably won’t be the last, but what coping skills have you used so far to survive the other days that you can use tonight? Because you have had it through this feeling before right?
What is different about today?
I like I, I want you here and I now you got it in you, you have proven it time and time again

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@ArraDreaming favourite food is meatballs or crumb chicken

Dinner tonight nothing yet what's for dinner for you?

@Jynx why do you care so much? The person left didn't even ask anything

All I said was I am suicidal and everything she left now I just feel a shit person

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@ArraDreaming

River

Music

Driving

Showers

Friends

Sometimes art I don't really do art

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And you know this is why I love this community because most of us including me have been in your shoes, and we are still here and able to tell you that it gets better @Sunnyside226 I came pretty close in 2015, I don’t share that with anyone really…. but I’m still here and I am glad I am still here because shit got better in married with 3 kids in a job I love gardening, riding bikes, getting out bush and connecting to country, far out man please stick it out dude because on the other side there’s this whole world that will open for you @Sunnyside226

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We had carbonara! You may laugh.

I’m doing what I call the nightly security guard duties, I have a little spot in our hallway that I sit and tell my kids to go back to bed about 45 times a night, they still never learn that I’m sitting right outside their bedrooms. It’s mostly for the older one, our middle kid (3) will usually go out like a light while we’re in there, fall asleep on one of us and we have to sneak out lol


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What one of those things can you focus on for a bit @Sunnyside226 even just for the next 30 mins?
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