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Support for Flowerlove22

Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.

I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.

Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 I can’t stay because I’ve got dinner and kids to sort out but I just wanted to ask what connection you have to the river? If you don’t have one, find one, water is healing for me, I’ve also lost both of my parents too mate

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @ArraDreaming You and @Sunnyside226 have loss and grief in common - wish that wasn't the case for either of you 😒💕 Much love to you both.

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@Zoe7 @ArraDreaming my dad loves the water we would sit here for hours

@Zoe7 sorry I just miss them yes I am safe sorry I forgot

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

@Zoe7 I miss my mum every day just like @Sunnyside226
Time doesn’t make it easier just makes you wiser, you learn to cope with it better, always there even in the background.

It’s hard especially around big milestones

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

I can imagine how much you miss them @Sunnyside226 @ArraDreaming Grief has no process nor timeline hey.

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@Zoe7 are you a worker here?

Just wondering. Your a nice person

I am a mess I am having a bad night

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Nah @Sunnyside226 Just a member like you 👍

I like chatting to you 💕

I had many, many of those kind of nights - not easy to get through but I have confidence you will.

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

No timeline and it fluctuates and it’s a funny thing because it’s so different…. I probably spent the first 6-12 months of my mum passing away in shock and almost then it all hit me, different feeling that all mixed that made no sense in combination resentment, guilt, all of it, it’s such a journey for different people @Zoe7 even between the way I grieved for my dad and the way I did for my mum….

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Yeah it is hard and we do grieve for different people in different ways @ArraDreaming ...and no way is right or wrong nor timelines set. It can also hit you in different ways and often when least expected. 😒

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

Oh ok @Zoe7 @

What's for dinner?

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