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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Hey @RiverSeal I'm upset not okay
I made the biggest mistake to my family
Are you on shift today?
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RiverSealModerator
Sorry to hear that things are not going that great at the moment @Sunnyside226. Would you feel comfortable sharing with the Forums what is going on for you today? I'm here to support you today! RiverSeal
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@RiverSeal I told my sister and brother I hated them I didn't want to see them ever again because they upset me
My brother is very angry at me today we had the biggest argument I told the kids I didn't want anything to do with them now I am upset why I don't know
After yesterday and this week with thoughts ECT my brother texted me today saying something really bad I should do it, everything is going wrong I am a burden to everyone
I hate myself right now I wish I could just....
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
I am really sorry @RiverSeal
I am sorry I have haven't replied to you over the last week's I didn't want to upset you
I'm sorry
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RiverSealModerator
Sometimes we say things in the heat of the moment particularly if we are angry @Sunnyside226 . Have you thought about apologising and letting your brother know how you feel? He may forgive you and you could smooth things over maybe. It might feel hard, but it could be the best thing that you could do right now!
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RiverSeal
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@RiverSeal I said sorry I'm Friday he's the one being moody still I told him I was sorry he said whatever yesterday and today he's been a pain
I'm done saying sorry to him I have done everything for him he's being a pain would it make him happy if I just left? Didn't see me again or hear from me?
About the SMS I don't think sane or anyone here would understand
I'm done with everything done trying if he wants me gone I'll get out of his life
I am tried mentally and physically drained just done
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RiverSealModerator
It sounds like you have tried to smooth things over already @Sunnyside226 so what else do you think you can do?
Making big statements when you are emotional is challenging so what do you think about giving yourself some space and seeing how you feel when you are less emotional?
I'm sorry you are feeling this way!
RiverSeal
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Space from who?
No point take care
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RiverSealModerator
Giving yourself some space means doing it at another time @Sunnyside226.
Please reach out to crisis support services if you need a little extra support with this:
Lifeline: 13 11 14 or Lifeline Chat
Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 or Beyond Blue Webchat
1800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732, www.1800respect.org.au
Suicide call back service: 1300 659 467 or Online Counselling
Kids Helpline (up to ages 25): 1800 55 1800, http://kidshelpline.com.au/get-help/phone-counselling
If in immediate danger: 000 www.triplezero.gov.au/triple-zero/How-to-Call-000
RiverSeal
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
No helplines are just pointless
Bye take care
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