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Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
In response to: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@lavenderhaze yes I'm home laying in bed trying to hold myself together
My chest is really really really hurting
NO I am not talking to my partner they have done my head in all night so I'm sleeping in the spare room I just need Time away from them and the world
I'm happy to chat with you 😌 you made me smile I thought nobody was on do you like squishmallows ?
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
lavenderhazeSenior Contributor
Ofc, cuddles with squishmallow sounds really good right now.
I am glad you had a smile 🙂 I started at 10 am
Has your chest been hurting for a while?
And it's valid if you need some time away from everything right now
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@lavenderhaze I don't feel comfortable saying it on the forums I hope that wasn't rude 😕
Well didn't I messed up
Would I ever be a good parent ? My head is spinning
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
lavenderhazeSenior Contributor
That's understandable, @Sunnyside226, it's not rude at all 🙂
I am sorry to hear your head is spinning. Were you able to get any sleep last night? You must be so tired
And in my perspective, people who question if they are being good are generally good so yes I think so ❤️
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@lavenderhaze yes I've had 2hours sleep
My autism brain is running a marathon
My partner who as ADHD is outside in the house screaming at the tv and his game he screaming like a girl 🤣😂
@lavenderhaze could you help with this? I don't know if I am allowed to say it please help ( not crisis ) something else important
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
lavenderhazeSenior Contributor
Aw you must be exhausted on 2 hours sleep, are you planning to have a nap this afternoon?
I hear you, it's so hard to have a rest when your brain is having constant thoughts
Hahaha seems like he is enjoying his game, hopefully his side is not losing 😂
Yes ofc, can you tell me what is it in regards to and I can tell you if it's okay to share here?
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@lavenderhaze I think he's lost the game he's having a screaming match out there I've told him to run it off 😂😂
I am in my masana room where nobody is allowed but me!
Do I email you on the same email? There's 100s here 😂
Why do I have to be strong for others?
@lavenderhaze it was sweet of you to check in with me on the forums 🫂❤️ superstar 🤠
I hope you're happy to sit here still
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
lavenderhazeSenior Contributor
Hahah good idea! 😂
Aw thats nice 🙂
I'll send you an email and you can reply to that
And I get you @Sunnyside226, sometimes it's really hard to be anything for others, that's okay - you just have to look after yourself for now and that's enough
Aw thank you and of course, I am more than happy to sit with you ❤️
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
I' ll sent it now @lavenderhaze
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@lavenderhaze do you play video games
The room I am in nobody is allowed in it's sooo cool 😎
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