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Support for Flowerlove22

Support for Flowerlove22

Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.

I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.

Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.

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Hey @Sunnyside226 ,

The world is a difficult place. Many things we have to do it ourselves, no one can really help you achieve that. But it doesn't mean you can get some mental support.

Let us know what can we do to help you and what can help you feel better.

You are not alone. Hope you are feeling better now.

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Re: Support for Flowerlove22

morning @Sunnyside226

sitting with you our friend , you are not alone

@GardensHeart , @tyme , @ArraDreaming , @Zoe7

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Hi @Sunnyside226

I hope you're okay. I'm sorry you feel so alone and how your parents left you.

We are all here for you.

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Hi @Sunnyside226, it seems like last night was rough - I am so sorry you didn't feel supported 😞

How're you going today?

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@Shaz51

I am alone nobody understands this pain I feel like I am going to lose myself I want peace from everything

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@Birdofparadise8 honest my dad had a choice to stay but he didn't all I can think about is how I went wrong or if I pushed him over more and more was it my fault? I tired to be there for him it wasn't enough I can't be in 20 places at once

Yes I blame myself for it because I feel like I should of done something

Everyone counts on me to be here and there I feel like I have to split myself

I am more angry because my brother does nothing for me or my sister he expects me to do everything.

I need a break from life

If I get in trouble for saying this that is fine

Sorry for my rambling on and on

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I can empathise with you @Sunnyside226!

Families can be so tricky and have such a big impact on our emotional and mental health.

It seems like you have a lot on your plate and are managing so many things - that must be tough.

I have been in similar situations where I have had to take on a lot for my family, and it led to me not feeling the best. I remind myself, in times like that, that I can't pour from an empty cup. I need to look after myself first, and only then can I do anything else. It's okay to take a step back and focus on yourself if needed.

Sitting with you 💜

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Yeah I understand that @Sunnyside226

I'm sure he doesn't think it's your fault. He had choices to make and that's what he chose to do.

Can you tell them how you feel?

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@lavenderhaze honest I'm done with everything I've called a helpline but it didn't really help I'm falling apart I feel like I am at the end

I'm crying on my floor thinking about how good it would be if I wasn't here

I feel at my breaking point don't get my wrong I love my brother and sister but I can't keep helping them everyday

On top of everything working with kids/teens if a lot

I have to hide My feelings from everyone

I just want a place where I be let myself be free and let my feelings out

Sorry if I am rambling and annoying you

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@Birdofparadise8 I've told them my sister is different when there is a incident or something happens I get called because my brother can't deal with it

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