@Jynx is still around but is on leave at the moment.
I'm not the 'boss' so to speak, but I am the Community Leader who oversees the day-to-day stuff on the forums.
Hate you? No way! If anyone should be hated, it would be me.. I've got BPD so I've had a rocky past. What do you need to know about BPD for work? It's a pretty awesome condition to have because it doesn't rely on meds to get better. It's linked closely to complex trauma. It sends people on emotional roller coasters.. however, people can certainly recover from BPD and I think that's the greatest misconceoption. In the past, people thought you can't recover, but you sure can!
We recognise people have a life outside the forums. It's totally okay you come and go. There are many people who disappear, then come back after months or years!