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tymeModerator
Hey @Sunnyside226 ,
I hope you don't mind me making this thread for you.
I just wanted you to know that the whole forums community is here to support you through this challenging time.
Please look after yourself. I recognise it's hard to look after three small children on your own.
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Oh okay @Sunnyside226
No I had COVID after TS, so I couldn't go. I think we will do something at the end of the month.
TS was amazing.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Sorry to hear you had covid @Birdofparadise8 that sucks
I must ask this isn't at you but why do people get upset if I can't explain myself
I have the right to post something if I am angry or anything why do people have to jump in and ask so many questions I am not doing anything wrong or bad it just feels like I can't say anything without people having a go at me I know you may not know or have the answers
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Are you talking about other members @Sunnyside226
Maybe they are just worried as well and want to help you.
You could just say you don't know how to communicate how you're feeling and you just want to vent.
Make it clear that people don't necessarily have to reply if you don't want them to.
Would that help at all?
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Birdofparadise8 all I had said was I was angry and suicidal I missed my dad
That's when the other person jumped in asking questions as of why I was angry suicidal I had asked others to talk to which I didn't I had said I don't want to talk about it and they kept on going
I tried to say I don't want to talk about it but they kept asking.
Everyone is allowed to be angry and not have to explain themselves yes if I said something or did something I am sure one of the workers would check in with me which they did
It feel like so much pressure to answer the questions why why why am I angry why am I suicidal
Because I have nothing in my life I lost my dad and mum I am losing my sister at this stage it will only be me and my brother left I am angry at the world and people because I can't lose someone else I don't want to lose another family member I am scared that I will right now I have nobody
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
From the bottom off my heart I am sorry
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RiverSealModerator
I nearly bought that album of hers the other day @Sunnyside226 🙂 RiverSeal
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
I feel you @Sunnyside226
I'm sorry, but I'm not sure what else to say.
You don't need to be sorry for how you feel.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Birdofparadise8 you don't need to say anything
Plus so people get pissed when I talk to the workers? Because it seems like they do
I have made a decision not to talk to the workers here because people get upset
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Really, I haven't seen people say anything about the staff here @Sunnyside226
They are here to support you.
@RiverSeal, I'm sure you agree.
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
@Birdofparadise8 it's in some post
I promise I won't be a bother anymore
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