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This is what I didn't want great so many judge on here this is bull I don't need to be told to call a helpline I don't need to be told 100 times
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
I never said everything has to shared on here and nobody is forcing you to open up, like AT ALL. You start saying something to entice people to ask you things and talk to you then you say doesn’t matter, so nobody is forcing you to do anything, actually, almost the opposite actually. You are expecting people to speak to you, not the other way around like you are saying.
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
We wall want to help you including me beleive it or not but you lead with something so we all ask if you’re ok then you get mad at us and saying you are never coming back, make it make sense. We are all here to help.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
I wouldn’t be on here writing this if I didn’t care
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Also, people are suggesting helplines because they are more suitable in a crisis, not because they don’t care
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Sunnyside226Senior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
If I wanted people to talk to me I would tag them
Just leave me alone I am sick of people always telling me what to do I never asked @RiverSeal to talk to did I no she did herself
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Fine. Everyone will leave you alone then, just like you asked, but you did ask for people to talk to you so well remember that next you reach out that when you say you want to talk you actually don’t want to talk to anyone even though you said you did. Got it. I like to give people unconditional positive regard but this is consistent so I have no idea anymore.
I’m out man, this hurts my brain…
Forget I tried.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Have a good night, stay safe, I mean that genuinely but I just can’t keep trying to help you anymore.
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Wow hey @ArraDreaming@Sunnyside226@RiverSeal
Is everything going okay?
In response to: Re: Support for Flowerlove22
ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Re: Support for Flowerlove22
Yup! I’m not up for drama @Birdofparadise8 in fact I’m about to turn my phone off completely and check out for the night I said what I needed to say in the most polite way I could.
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