ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Does anyone want to talk
Contact my sister because I’m a nice person and it’s Christmas sees my message doesn’t respond
call my brother doesn’t answer the phone
Sorry for trying to be nice forget I even tried
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Contact my sister because I’m a nice person and it’s Christmas sees my message doesn’t respond
call my brother doesn’t answer the phone
Sorry for trying to be nice forget I even tried
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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JynxModerator
@ArraDreaming We can miss people even if we're better off without em. We can miss the idea of people, or miss what they could have been for us, or what they were supposed to be. We can miss the good moments even if there were also a lotta bad ones.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Yeah I know how it feels. I thought of my grandmother and wanted to call her, but I can't @ArraDreaming
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JynxModerator
Haha precisely @ArraDreaming
@Birdofparadise8 ever written your gran a letter? It can be really cathartic 💜
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
I did before the funeral I wrote a very long card @Jynx
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Oh, okay, I'm sorry about both of your parents. @ArraDreaming
I loved my nan. She also had depression. We had a special bond. Not bragging, but I was her favourite grandchild.
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JynxModerator
I remember learning about 'continuing bonds' at uni @Birdofparadise8 - that whilst the person may have passed, our relationship with them doesn't. Just thinking about your desire to call her, and thought if there was stuff you'd wanna express to her you could always write it in a letter.
@ArraDreaming bahaha those percentages! Gave me a good chuckle! And yo, the above could be good for you too, if ever you wanna express stuff to your mum, or to your dad! 💜
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