ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Does anyone want to talk
Contact my sister because I’m a nice person and it’s Christmas sees my message doesn’t respond
call my brother doesn’t answer the phone
Sorry for trying to be nice forget I even tried
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Does anyone want to talk
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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I’m just tired, I hate to say because I care for them both but I kind of want someone else to help this time, @RiverSeal it’s always me I have enough on my plate,we have 2 kids and a baby of our own we cant always be there
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RiverSealModerator
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You are a very caring parent, sibling and partner @ArraDreaming and I can hear that you have so much love for your family. We aren't responsible for other people though and they have to make their own choices in life. Respecting that choice is as much as caring about them and giving them space to be who they are. It's also ok to have boundaries with family members and how we interact with them and that takes strength with you are demonstrating. I'll be around tomorrow and have a good night! RiverSeal
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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before today hadn’t seen her in months
our contact is limited for this reason @RiverSeal
our contact is limited for this reason @RiverSeal
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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But it doesn’t make it any easier when you know things are fucked up
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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you know what @RiverSeal I thought about this when I was mowing this morning, deep thinking time
I think I’m scared because I know how it starts and how it ends, Im worried she’s going up like my mum, maybe Im not giving her enough credit? I don’t know but I get scared because I have seen it
I don’t know if she has that drive to be better, YET.
I get worried that she is going to like mum.
I think I’m scared because I know how it starts and how it ends, Im worried she’s going up like my mum, maybe Im not giving her enough credit? I don’t know but I get scared because I have seen it
I don’t know if she has that drive to be better, YET.
I get worried that she is going to like mum.
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RiverSealModerator
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Do you think you are thinking like that because that's a story you know and it's familiar @ArraDreaming? Your sister is her own person, and she will have her own story and when she is ready or if she is ready to change, she will in her own way. Do you think that she wants to be different than what she is now? RiverSeal
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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I’m not sure @RiverSeal
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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if my kids got taken away from me how would that work?
I know how it works as a kid but like if they knocked on my door and wanted to take kids off us would they leave our oldest child because he’s not related to me and take the younger 2 or would they leave them with their mum or would they all get taken from both of us
I know how it works as a kid but like if they knocked on my door and wanted to take kids off us would they leave our oldest child because he’s not related to me and take the younger 2 or would they leave them with their mum or would they all get taken from both of us
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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would they at least keep them together cause like on the times there was heaps of us we didn’t stay together
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tymeModerator
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Hey @ArraDreaming ,
What brought this on?
BTW, I took a photo of my dead succulents for you. I'll send it later.... such a sad sad state of affairs...I can't even keep succulents alive. Watch me unalive cactus plants!
