ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Does anyone want to talk
Contact my sister because I’m a nice person and it’s Christmas sees my message doesn’t respond
call my brother doesn’t answer the phone
Sorry for trying to be nice forget I even tried
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Contact my sister because I’m a nice person and it’s Christmas sees my message doesn’t respond
call my brother doesn’t answer the phone
Sorry for trying to be nice forget I even tried
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JynxModerator
Of course @Birdofparadise8 💜
Haha yeah no thanks @ArraDreaming - I don't plan on having any kids at all. Just not for me. I have enough trouble looking after myself and two cats. I kept getting told when I was younger that one day I'd change my mind, and want kids. "Wait till you're in your 30's, then the biologica clock will start ticking!" Yeah, in my 30's now, and my desire for children remains unchanged, at a whopping 0% interest lol. I mean don't get me wrong I think it's an amazing journey and very worthwhile to a lot of people but, not for me.
Sucks you had to be the parent for your siblings hey. But you're definitely breaking cycles and doing the work, so things will be different for your own little ones, no doubt.
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Yeah I know @ArraDreaming
You must be having a ball.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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JynxModerator
@ArraDreaming aye, people get really weird about pressuring others to have kids ay. Can't imagine bringing another bub along, they have such high needs when they're that young.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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JynxModerator
Thanks man, yeah I mostly just ignore them nowadays @ArraDreaming but it deffo used to get to me. But besides, I'm queer af, asexual, and nonbinary. I sorta think Mother Nature herself is telling me not to have kids 😂
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
I came from hobart @ArraDreaming
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
I moved for uni because the uni there only offered the bachelor of nutrition in Launceton and they didn't offer the master's course so why move there for two years and then move to melb for two when I can move for all four and maybe longer @ArraDreaming
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