ClockFaceSenior Contributor
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Thinking
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SnowieSenior Contributor
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@ClockFace unfortunately we can't control others, it would be nice to sometimes.
You are welcome to speak on here 💗
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MissMuffetSenior Contributor
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Sometimes our biggest enemy is not lack of value from others but a lack of value from ourselves.
Do you value yourself?
Here's a good quote, "Those who mind don't matter, Those who matter don't mind"
I think you could apply the same with feeling valued by others.
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ClockFaceSenior Contributor
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Its an area I struggle with, though Im better at it than I ever have. My family see me as selfish however, I believe in taking care of ones self first in almost all circumstances, you cant fill another vessel if yours is empty.
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tymeModerator
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Agreed @ClockFace - take care of yourself. You can't pour out of an empty cup. You've cared so much for your family in the past - so much so that your body has been worn.
So many times you've put them first. Now it's your turn.