Tabaluga's

..there's more than one way to look at things @Former-Member steada picking out th negs .. poor bridgey,please get help, do something ..not sure what I did now, but it involved time and baby steps and trying to breathe occasionally, distractions, huge distractions, am still a weirdo, but feeling a lot better about 'stuff' ..

yes, saw Brilliant Minds when in van not that long ago .. to me, that was close to him in real life ..just a brilliant movie. Try something you havent tried in a while maybe? you might be surprised. Not trying to push anyway and glad you are on here. A smile might just break the ice...

hi @eth not sure if we have met, rings true re me as in pic hi @Former-Member

@TAB I think we met a couple of months ago before I took a break from the forums. Sounds like you've just moved. I'm about to move in 1 week after 11 years in the same place.

No worries @eth ..how do you feel about moving ?

@TAB overall I know it's for the best as I need support at times with my health problems and I did ask for it to happen. My family is giving me huge support, helping with costs and my brother has even built a cabin in his back yard for me, so that part of it I feel good about. BUT ... it's an interstate move to a much bigger city and I'm pretty nervous about all the adjustment and orientation. So glad I will have help but brother is going away for 10 days only 2 weeks after I get there.

ahh ..that rings a bell, sorry @eth ..well that's good of him to do that. Why would you be bothered about being on your own? just asking.. a lot of the time it suits me I think, well with pre conditions haha :smileyhappy..have you been to that city before? and why were you in the one you are in? . reasons change ..dunno ..

@TAB being on my own didn't bother me til I had a couple of health problems get worse, particularly hand tremors that even stopped me from using the eftpos at the shop at one stage, and I got scared as I have no-one here near Darwin that I can count on to help out if things get worse again. I came back here in 2001 to put my child through high school years here as I had some great experiences here as a teen. We managed to be a lot more stable than we had been prior to coming here, but they left home several years ago and, as you said, reasons change. I have visited where I'm moving to and always enjoyed it, lovely beaches etc, but it's different this time moving there permanently. In order to have family support I had a choice of 3 areas and this one suited me best - climate not too extremely cold and only a day trip to visit my child and grandchild.

it's OK @Former-Member I just liked the quote/pic so I put it up