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And I’m never going back there I’m riding my bike home because I have had enough fu k this shit I hate everyone i hate when i feel anxious at work for I hate that people know I am a stupid idiot ! Everyone’s annoying and stupid including you
Sour peach hearts. They're excellent lollies. And the violas are little flowers - I think that's what they're called. A bunch have been planted near me but they are struggling. I think they don't love the wind.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Sure @Birdofparadise8
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
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Ah okay yeah if they new, I don't think they would @Former-Member
Nice a Lollie I thought fruit hahah.
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
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I want to understand your work. I've noticed you've posted about work and don't like it. So you work with plants. Is it like a nursery, or what is it? When you get angry is it at the people your working with or are you angry with yourself about being angry @ArraDreaming
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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@Birdofparadise8 I get angry at myself for being dumb because I am dumb
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Then I get angry about being angry
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
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You're not dumb @ArraDreaming
Why do you get angry, though? Is it because of work?
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Everything @Birdofparadise8 And yeah I work in a nursery
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
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Oh okay @ArraDreaming
Do you have an exercise to use when you're feeling angry? So you can try and calm down.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Sorry @Birdofparadise8 now with a clearer head… The issue for me is I get triggered by people, you know when people get angry there is always an underlying emotion. I could be anxiety, embarrassment, fear… anger doesn’t act alone it tag teams. Often when I show anger, I’m fearful, or I’m anxious, or I’m embarrassed… So I get angry at people at work when I feel like I can’t do something write, I’m embarrassed about it, I feel like my cover is blown (the cover being that I am deep down very unintelligent and quite dumb, not putting myself down, fact). I feel like oh I couldn’t do this thing, and people are gonna know. And it’s a cycle because I get frustrated then I get anger and I am embarrassed for acting like that. It just swirls around like a bad cycle
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