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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
And I’m never going back there I’m riding my bike home because I have had enough fu k this shit I hate everyone i hate when i feel anxious at work for I hate that people know I am a stupid idiot ! Everyone’s annoying and stupid including you
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
Like an internal conflict with yourself @ArraDreaming
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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor
I've got to go, but it's been nice talking to you @ArraDreaming
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And anyway all the good things that ever happened in the world happened cos of plants. They are the smartest kids on the block. And never went to school.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
@ArraDreaming School isn't everything and not everyone is suited to school. What you have though is life experience and that is sometimes worth more than academia. Intelligence is not just about the school/studying in the formal sense. There are so many intelligences and ways to learn that have nothing to do with 'school'. Speaking from a teacher, school often puts kids in a box but not everyone can thrive in that 'box'.
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JynxModerator
In my (maybe not very popular) opinion @ArraDreaming, school is not exactly a good measure of one's intelligence or capacity for clever thinking. School is all about rote learning - aka learn this fact then remember it in an exam. I subscribe to the idea that humans have flourished in our evolutionary journey precisely because we don't all think the same way. So maybe you struggled to remember a bunch of facts and sums and who was prime minister in 1925, and didn't do well in school.
But there's sooo many different types of mind, and different types of intelligence. You have already demonstrated emotional intelligence, which is not as common as you'd think! (I reckon there's a LOT of emotionally intelligent people here on the forums... in the rest of society, not so much lol). And like @Birdofparadise8 mentioned, you have a wife and kids - which means you got good instincts, as well as empathy, compassion, and patience - all super valuable attributes.
I mean I think about that awesome lego game you described playing with your kids - that requires no small amount of creativity and ingenuity. You might suck at algebra or whatever, but you still have so much of value that you bring to the world.
Okay rant over lol
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Hi @ArraDreaming Checking in to see how you are travelling today 😁
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