Far and Away

Unbelievable is the only word that comes to mind without swearing profusely @Faith-and-Hope No class or thought for anyone else - and not just you but the kids too - disgusting all around. You hold your head high Hon because it will all come back to bite them one day - and I can imagine the things being said about it all behind the scenes. These things do not go unnoticed and whilst those in the family restaurant (as one example) would be treating them kindly as customers I can imagine they are saying more about the whole situation in the background. The a/h and his 'bit' deserve each other ...until that all falls apart too and then they can both suffer the consequences ...and that will inevitably happen because both of them have gone into this with no respect or thought for anyone else and once that intial attraction has waned the reality will hit ...and you will be left standing with both your dignity and respect rom everyone else intact 💛🧡💚💙💜🌷🌸🌺💐🌹

It really doesn't make any sense @Zoe7 .... he despises his own father for behaving exactly this way .... and then goes and repeats the pattern ..... and his father is bl%dy miserable.

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Heeeey ..... it's @Former-Member ❣️Hiya 👋

Unfortunately that is a pattern that emerges despite what he thinks of his father @Faith-and-Hope - often the more one protests the more they become like that that they despise. All you can do is sit back and watch his world implode - and I personally would take a front seat to that and enjoy every minute of it.

@Former-Member sooooooooo good to see you Hon ...have been worried about you - you have made my night

I need to head to bed and try to get some sleep @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member - way past bedtime here and need to have a few hours to be able to get through tomorrow.

Hope you both sleep soon too. Goodnight to both of you - sending hugs and love

Dozing off here too @Zoe7 @Former-Member @Sans911 ....

G'night

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope

I'm sorry all this is happening - it's really bad enough when people behave badly but so much worse when they get onto our turf and display it all - as you say - waving a magic wand as if to prove they can do all the "stuff" and no one can stop them - right in front of you, in front of your colleagues and friends -

So sad to know someone as kind, honest and decent as you has to put up with it - and your kids - what can we say or do? Nothing really - people who carry on like this have no feelings for other people's feelings - or right - or place in the world

You can sit back and watch this - no doubt it will have a come-uppance in time - as unpleasant as it all is and will be - and it's not at all easy for you - or your kids - and not a good example for them

Again - I'm sorry Faith - and I'm sending my best wishes

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