Far and Away

Hi Sherry, love your post, helped me catch up on everyone's week (still struggle joining the dots sometimes, then go putting my foot in it or worse, so thank you). Your hubby sure is the handful. Make sure you get breaks from him. Caring is so exhausting. Your BIL sounds serious, poor guy, is hubby good eith him ? glad you're not having to face another death at this time. Have a safe trip back. Let us know how it all goes. Good to see you 💙🌷🦉

Definitely see it as a compliment @Former-Member Hubby may be outwardly being nasty about it but underlining that must be mhis own insecurities. As hard as it is try not to take it to heart - as you said ....when would you getntime for that you are with him 24/7 when you are not at appointments of your own.

BIL is certainly going to need more round the clock support so it is a really difficult situation for everyone. It doesn't help that his town's hospital do not have the resources to help - sounds like he may have to move into a care facility also and tat will be so hard on him. Unfortunately that may be what is needed to support him and give him at least some quality of life

Hi @Former-Member How has your day been?

Sorry to hear about your FIL and BIL @Former-Member

been thinking of you lots today my awesome friend

hugs @Faith-and-Hope

double hugs @Former-Member , @Zoe7 , @Former-Member , @Maggie , @oceangirl , @Sans911 , @Snowie , @Gazza75 , @BlueBay

I am feeling very tired , mr shaz has something in his mind and that is it , I say suggestions that might be a better idea , but he won`t answer

and then we are on our way to what he has decided without telling me before hand

Hi @Shaz51 and anyone else around.

@Zoe7glad to hear cat is on the mend and things are going well

Thinking of you @Faith-and-Hope hoping the chat goes ok

Hi my beautiful sister @Shaz51

Hopefully we can have a good chat soon. Miss you..

miss you too my sister @oceangirl

how is kira and milo xxx

hello and hugs @Snowie

Good to see you @Snowie 💜❄️

Hi @Zoe7 @Former-Member @oceangirl @Shaz51 @Former-Member ..... hope I haven’t missed anyone.

Our talk went better than I expected, and it was about what I expected .... the stress of how we have been trying to live has impacted my mr. as well, so we have talked about separating out our living arrangements ..... basically just accepting and putting forward that we have grown apart and leaving it at that ..... I am actually feeling a giant backwash of relief. I know he is still very unwell and unable to see it, but I really can’t help him until he becomes aware of it, and perhaps the further testing he will now undergo will show it up .... or not.

It is creating a new level of distance between us that will hopefully take the pressure off my health too.

That is frustrating @Shaz51 Hope you can get some rest soon

Yes Cat is doing really well @Snowie but still need to wait on the biopsy results. Toby also goes in to get his teeth done this week so still plenty for me to worry about - trying not to but it does creep in ocassionally. Did you have your appointment today? How did it go?

Cat is doing really well, that is good news @Zoe7

fingers crossed for Toby xoxo