@Adge Have you thought about contacting your local state and federal members - it is a federal service so your local federal member could be of service but your local state member may also be able to help. Tell them everything you have been through and how much it has all affected you as well as the inability to dispute the decisioen in anyway through the website and the fact there is no-one you can actually contact to discuss this decision. There are obvious flaws in the system that need to be addressed - not just for you but for everyone - and as consumers of this service you should have more rights than are available.
@Faith-and-Hope @Snowie I slept most of yesterday and felt really unwell last night so went to bed really early. I slept on and off all night and am still feeling very tired and achy but not as unwell as I was. Today will be another rest day with fur baby cuddles the only thing on the agenda. Clover is very active this morning so that is super cute, Toby is happily laying on the couch and Cat is once again outside. She may not stay there all day as it is getting windy and we are expecting that to pick up throughout the day.
@Faith-and-Hope I suspect this latest demand from ex is taking it's toll on you Hon and that makes me very sad for you - he is a real piece of work but we know that now - all you can do is get through these days and remind yourself that truth is with you and this will all be over soon. Stay strong and continue to be yourself because you are - and always will be - the most amazing mother, daughter, friend and role model for all those around you - he cannot break your spirit nor the super wonderful person you are to your core. Hugs and hugs and hugs - and so much love always 