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Far and Away

Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor20 Nov 2016, 8:10 pm AEDT

Far and Away

Hi @Former-Member .... 😊

You wrote:

Thanks @Faith-and-Hope, how's your adventure going? Is there a particular thread your putting updates? Jetlag takes about a week to settle I'm told, and I'm sure there's son Celtic wisdom to get over your post viral fatigue How's WH coping with his obcessive routines while travelling? A challenge I would think 😕 Hope this is a time yo rekindle some first love maybe.
Any good churches to visit there? Did you go this morning? Love ancient architecture and history. Churches are great for it. Hugz xox

Hadn't thought to start a new thread ....

In transit again today and have to go again now .... found a brief moment with wifi .... will catch you later and answer the above.

Hi to everyone else .... 👋🏽💗💕

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Eve7Senior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 9:38 pm AEDT

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Good night @Bow

I am so glad you’ve been able to meet @Faith-and-Hope

💖🦋💖

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BowSenior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 9:44 pm AEDT

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Oh not at all @Faith-and-Hope , really hard day.

hope things get better for you soon. Been 4 yrs for me separated, divorced last year, plus a couple of yrs living with his bs and lies.

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 9:59 pm AEDT

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Hearing you @Bow ..... I had bs and lies, but this one has addictions and it was all so unclear ..... hard to see what was really going on. Massive deceptions behind the scenes. It's all trickling out, bit by bit, but it's a huge mess. Can't even begin the cleanup yet cos it's all still unravelling, and he's still creating bl%dy mayhem all over it / us ..... but the more he does that the more his true colours are showing up.

So glad you have got to the divorced stage, but impossible to go "no contact" when there are kids involved. I am learning to be a grey rock.

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Zoe7Senior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 10:21 pm AEDT

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Never a grey rock @Faith-and-Hope ....a rainbow full of life and colour

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 10:25 pm AEDT

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❤️🦋

A grey rock around "him" @Zoe7 .... they feed off your reactivity, his kind, so they keep pressing your buttons trying to make you react. Have to learn to respond like a grey rock would. Save all the love and life for those who care about me.

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Zoe7Senior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 10:28 pm AEDT

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I hear you Hon 💖💖💖 @Faith-and-Hope We get the rainbow and he gets the rock 👍

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 10:50 pm AEDT

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That's it @Zoe7 ..... 👍

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Zoe7Senior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 10:56 pm AEDT

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@Faith-and-Hope 😁

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Zoe7Senior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 11:17 pm AEDT

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Hi @Adge and @Sans911 Super muggy here tonight - how is it in your neck of the woods?

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Sans911Senior Contributor25 Jan 2021, 11:23 pm AEDT

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It's actually cooled considerably here @Zoe7 but possibly between the menopause & fibromyalgia I am feeling constantly very warm. The little tower fan is on my bedside table but at low tonight.

@Faith-and-Hope @Eve7 👋♥️💜♥️

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