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Thanks @Faith-and-Hope, how's your adventure going? Is there a particular thread your putting updates? Jetlag takes about a week to settle I'm told, and I'm sure there's son Celtic wisdom to get over your post viral fatigue How's WH coping with his obcessive routines while travelling? A challenge I would think 😕 Hope this is a time yo rekindle some first love maybe. Any good churches to visit there? Did you go this morning? Love ancient architecture and history. Churches are great for it. Hugz xox
Hadn't thought to start a new thread ....
In transit again today and have to go again now .... found a brief moment with wifi .... will catch you later and answer the above.
Well done on what you have achieved @Zoe7❣️ I hope getting something to eat peels you up some more. You're getting there.
i am dozing off in front of The Wizard of Oz with D2.
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I think eating has made me more tired @Faith-and-Hope so I am going to have to give up for tonight and hopefully get a couple of hours sleep. Hope you and D2 are tucked up in bed now too and Nelly is keeping your feet warm. Goodnight sweetheart
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Goodnight @Zoe7 ...., 🦋💤💕
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Not a good night @Faith-and-Hope Up and down all night and then Toby woke me when I had finally fallen asleep wanting to go out in the early morning. I did manage another couple of hours sleep but have a headache, sore tummy and of course super tired. My brain is not functioning properly either so reports are hard going. I am breaking it up with the housework but that is also taking me longer with the level of lethargy I am feeling. I will certainly be relieved when the reports are finished.
DId you manage to see all of the Wizard of Oz or did you fall asleep again? How are you feeling today and do you have any plans?
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Oh no @Zoe7 ..... it's still uphill for you 😔 ..... maybe you can fit in a rest time this afternoon ? Perhaps and hour's more sleep will help your brain function more smoothly ?
i am still tired, but feeling okay. I believe s2bx is really starting to upset people in our case/s and they will start taking action over him as the difficult customer that he is, and I can stop trying to wave that flag to get their attention to it ..... that is what will take the biggest load off my shoulders. Of course the potential outcomes are concerning, so I am going to stay as positive as I can that it will all work out the best for both D2 and me.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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That is good news (if it can be called that) but he is dropping the mask around others and that can only help you Hon. We knew he could not sustain that facade and the lies ongoing but I also know it is hard for you to have to deal with ...and especially with D2 in the centre Keep that protective shield around you both and let him fall on his sword as he has created this for himself and any fallback is not only his own doing but honestly deserved. Some people just do not have any real insight or even care about how much they are hurting others and he certainly fits that mould. Cannot wait for the day for you that it all comes back to bite him and you are free @Faith-and-Hope💖💖💖
My headache has improved slightly and my stomach feels better - just the tiredness to fight through. Had a nap but wasn't entirely restful. Unfortunately woke quickly and not in a good way - I will be okay though - need to be to get things done 👍
A bit stressed about the Art reports - was going to enter them all into the system but it hasn't been set up to do so - that means it will have to be sorted on Monday and then I will have to spend extra time after our meeting Monday to enter them. The reports are supposed to be printed out Monday for the Principal and AP to read but they will have to be done without my comments - frustrating but nothing I can do about it until Monday.
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@Zoe7@Zoe7@how's that hand going? Haven't kept up sorry. Hope you can get an afternoon kip or early night. I use to put lead on dogs by my bed so they wouldn't jump up and down waking me all night. Sleep is important so hope you can sort Toby out. They're worth the fuss though 💙 @Faith-and-Hope @@ - you're sounding more relaxed. 😊 and it's Really good the legal team are starting to see who's who now, and that this is taking the pressure off you a little 🙏 about time! :face_with_rolling_eyes: my experience with Family Law is - "nobody really wins! You both get a 'bit' of what you want & custody issues get reviewed and changed later anyway" I too hope you and D2 are looked after well despite his bull:pile_of_poo: and that you'll you heal well. Will you have to have 'joint' guardianship? Will she live with you? Sorry I haven't kept up, still care 💙🔆💙🔆💙🔆
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Hand is going well @Former-Member Still have some discomfort if knocked or used too much much that is slowly improving too. No early night for me - have to push on and get reports done. I am going to try to do the majority of them done tonight so I can have some time off tomorrow - I really need it. Will likely have another nap after I feed the fur babies then back into it. They have to be done by Monday.
Tobes usually follows Cat when she wants her breakfast but he needed to go out to the toilet early today so I fed them both then as well - managed another couple of hours sleep after that but the tiredness is certainly catching up ith me. They are certainly worth the fuss - love our fur babies 💖
How are you doing?
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I don't have any answers to that yet @Former-Member ... s2bx has made the biggest vindictive mess of everything he can, and I'm still wading around in it at the moment. The uncertainty is not great, but that is designed as part of his vindictiveness, so I am not overthinking it - just focusing on getting over the next hurdle.
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I'm ok ta @Zoe7 Bad anniversary playing on my mind and still wading through boxes but ok. Really hot here. Have you tried exectutiv VitB complex with vitC to keep you awake? Helped me get through night shifts when nursing. Have it with food. @Faith-and-Hope, things ARE moving slowly re legal🤐, sorry about that,vthe uncertainty of it all... horrible with loved ones. Wearing your heart on your sleeve. Hey, bit of good news ciculating IRL gor me atm 😊 My friend here became a grandma too,bonlt this week, so many gorgeous photos and smiles. I love bubs, already shopped, found cutest little hanging music you for cot or carseat. My gifts have to make a noise 🔔🔉📯🎠
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