Far and Away

Thanks so much @Zoe7 .....

I do have all weekend, and then it will be behind me, hopefully 🤞

Goodnight ...... 💕💤

😔 good luck @Faith-and-Hope xxx

I do hope you get it all done quicker @Faith-and-Hope so you can have some time to yourself as well this weekend. It will be great to have this latest shite behind you Hon so do what you need to do to get that done. Let us know how you are going when you can ....will be sitting on your shoulder all day

Good morning @Faith-and-Hope

I remember @Zoe7 saying that this started as your travel thread so I was interested to see where you went on your travels. Some incredible places. I only got up to page 27 and I could have kelp going but I need to get up and get on with the day. I now understand a little more about your wh. At first I thought ed was short for his privates not working lol and only after a few more pages realised this was not what you were discussing. You are such a beautiful soul and I can tell you were so there for him and wanting to get him help and get back to where you were in your relationship. I'm really sorry it wasn't to be. I am sure so much more has happened after those few pages. I hope me writing this doesn't make you sad. I just wanted to send you extra hugs and strength for your arduous task at hand this weekend. I also hope that you get it done and have some time to do something good for your soul as well xxx

@Former-Member @Snowie @Shaz51 and everyone

P.S had a giggle at some of some comments from my favourite kitty @TAB didn't know you could sprechen sie Deutsch, hope you are well buddy 😺

lol @Anastasia Hi @Faith-and-Hope @Zoe7 @Former-Member @Snowie

Hi @TAB

@Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @Snowie Been to the tip finally. Forgot my gloves so it took a lot longer than usual as there were blackberry vines so I had to be careful. ....then I left my tarp there - it was pretty wrecked anyway but annoying. I need to get another one now but it was not a very good one to begin with so will replace it with a better quality one when I can.

Going to try to do a little more gardening today while I am up and about.but need a rest first after the tip. Tobes of course sat in the back of the car supervising through the window and is now asleep already. It really doesn't take much to wear him out - much like his Mummy

I also have some school work I need to see to so that is planned for this afternoon. Then I will have a shower and settle in for the night in front of the footy. I do not think my team will win tonight but hoping they at least give themselves a chance - with the season the way it has been anything can happen so there is just a little bit of hope.

Beause I can ....leaving this for you all and anyone else passing by...

👋💖🌷🌺🌸💞☕️ @Zoe7 @Faith-and-Hope @Snowie @Anastasia @Shaz51 And everyone. Hoping for a good day for you all.

Starting typing this a couple of hours ago and got waylaid by other things going on ....,,

Thanks @Anastasia ..... it doesn't make me sad. I have been able to accept that he has a condition that causes him to change who he is, and that what he did to our relationship is what he will do to any relationship that no longer serves him.

Unfortunately what he calls a "relationship" is false too ..... basically these are transactional creatures that shape-shift, and I was happy within the reaity he presented to me until it no longer served him. I am treasuring what we had, but I have let "him" go, as the "him" I thought he was was only the projection he gave me to suit what was our life at the time.

it's a difficult concept to get your head around at first, but once you realise it's a condition identifiable by patterns, that people like this follow, all over the world, you can gain an understanding about what happened, how you couldn't stop it from happening, and what they are going to do moving forward .....

"Forewarned is forearmed" as they say .....

Oops ..... there was supposed to be a "Hi @Zoe7 and @TAB " at the top of that ..... ^^^^ it dropped off somewhere .....

Now it's "Hi @Former-Member" as well, and to anyone else around this morning.

D3 surprised me by cooking breakfast - caught me just in time because I had cooked for D2 and me before D2 headed off to her father's house.

I have to go, because there is something else I need to do for a while. Back later.

thanks @Faith-and-Hope okay