Far and Away

@Faith-and-Hope I hope so too Hon. After all the years of trying to control everything and everyone around him and now trying to take away what he can from you I truly hope he feels the full weight of his actions and you come out of this with not only what you deserve but he is brought crashing down to earth as well.

I hope classes are going okay today and you manage to get out of your jammies at some stage. I don't plan on getting out of mine all day ...no need as still painting newspaper and nowhere I need to be.. I have 12 pieces of newspaper to go for the first coat then need to begin painting the other side of each. There are still some I need to paint with multi colours but doing the majority with single colours first. It certainly is a massive job but still aiming to have it all done by Wednesday 🤞

Hi @Former-Member @Lee82 @Former-Member @Angels333 Hugs to you all 💖

Thanks @Former-Member @Zoe7 ...... 💜💕

I suspect this "new" relationship is actually longer term, and that the financial information he is continuing to withhold will reveal a whole new cache of lies, which clearly he doesn't want revealed. I'd say that is one reason why his behaviour has become increasingly vindictive and punitive ..... he is under a squeeze, created for himself by himself, that is not yet obvious to everyone else ..... but it will be, even if that occurs beyond the scope of the legals. You can't hold lies in place indefinitely, because the truth is a more powerful force, a life force, whereas lies are unstable and transient shape-shifters.

And he will repeat the patterns in his new situation, because he has learned nothing.

I have also suspected the same @Faith-and-Hope It would make more sense of how closely he has kept you all through his increasing controlling issues in an effort to keep his 'other' life secret. Whatever the length and whatever he has done should not be your issue now though Hon - as hard and as hurtful as that is you will soon (I hope) to be free of all of that and be able to live your life on your terms. That is the light at the end of all this I am holding onto for you because there is nothing more in this world I want than for you to be happy again 💕

@Faith-and-Hope Finished the first side of all the plain coloured painting. Plan now on doing all the other side of whatever I can manage this afternoon and tonight. I don't think it will all be done by Wednesday but will push ahead and still try for that.

Have caught up on a couple of hours sleep but still need more so will try for another nap after the next round of painting. Will throw in some snuggle time with Tobes also 🐶

Hope classes are going okay and you are getting some work done as well 💕

@Former-Member @Lee82 @Former-Member @Angels333 and all others visiting here today ...hugs and hugs coming your way

You too @Lee82

@Zoe7 are you OK hun?

Yes @Anastasia Are you? It can be hard to hear such distress from others so it is really okay if you are struggling with that at the moment - happy to sit with you if you need

I'm really not @Zoe7

I want to be as I want to be supportive but I am having an already difficult time and Im rattled sorry 😞

I am more than happy to be here for you @Anastasia When it comes down to it we can only do what we can do and the rest has to be up to the individual. We cn show our care, concern and support but we also have to look after ourselves. Would you like to chat about how you are doing Hon - listening eyes on here for you