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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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TeejSenior Contributor
Hey pity party girl 😜😘 @CheerBear . Come join mine. My pity party has been raging for a while 😳:face_with_rolling_eyes:.
sorry you’ve had a blegh and meh time. I wish you had someone to tag team with on days like this too.
@Queenie I read your post in the ndis thread and it made me so angry and hurt for you. I hope they were not seriously following that up. I can’t understand that at all. I feel like you can fight this.
@Appleblossom How is little one travelling?
Im just dropping in because I just did my big scary thing and went to my old house and saw my ex and my old dog and it was so sad. It was nothing like I had remembered. It’s very much like a huge junk yard. There is so much work to get it up to scratch for selling 😏. My ex isn’t coping much with life either, I felt sad and pity for him. All my garden (those flowers that I took those pictures of) was dead. Very plants we landed were alive. So many trees are dead. It’s not my house at all anymore and I think that’s ok. I think the good memories of the kids growing up there will have to remain in my head.
Im so glad I’m going into respite this week. I need to find a brain. I feel like mush. So much suicide ideation still but I’m coping with it ok. I’m not sure when I’ll be back on.
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TeejSenior Contributor
I have no clue what I meant with this sentence. !Very plants we landed were alive.! So much brain mush 🤯🤯🤯🤨
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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TeejSenior Contributor
Thanks @CheerBear for the 💜. Will be back when it’s right. I’m feeling royally wrecked (love this phrase and stealing it 😜😘) now as well. Sooooo tired.
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SnowieSenior Contributor
@Teej @CheerBear
Have been reading along with you both. My thoughts are with you both as you go through these difficult and wonky times 
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QueenieSenior Contributor
I feel for you @Teej as I know the pain caused by revisiting a former home. My home I lovingly decorated and gardens I once planted and tended. A large fence I painted, all gone. There is a different family living there now. It was painful to watch. Thankfully it’s in another city that I have no business visiting anymore so won’t.
I really hope respite is useful for you.
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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