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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
@Zoe7, it's wonderful that you have such a loving relationship with Toby. He's seen you through the roughest of times and into better places now (though I know it's still not easy for you). One of my favourite things when I walk on the beach is watching the dogs frolic. They seem the freest and most joyful creatures there!
Funny how Toby wouldn't qualify as a therapy dog, he's so cheeky. In another way, it's a pity that he doesn't fit the bill. Still, I'm sure you wouldn't want him any other way.
As you can see, I am taking a bit of time with replies too, having breakfast and some communication via email with friends, real and virtual, that I sent greetings to in the middle of last night.
I've had about four hours sleep so far overnight. Will get some more before going to friend's place today.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Four hours is good for you @Mazarita 
Hope you get a littl more this morning before you head to yur friends.
I have been cutting Toby's hair but need to do it in stages - as long as I get around his eyes done he'll be able to see lol. His hair does grow pretty fast. He needs a haircut each month and it has been at least that since I last did it. He also desperately needs a bath so that is my next 'adventure' this morning. He is a good boy in the tub - he just sits and lets me wash him - got him used to it when he was a little puppy so he is okay with it now too.
I do love my little fella as if he was a child ...and he is just as spoilt lol
I love watching the dogs on the beach too - they look so free and happy - just as they should be.
Better get some more of Toby's hair cut - will be around though.
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
@Zoe7, nice chatting about Toby, as well as my mum's Sam. 
I'm going to head back to bed now. Have a wonderful day! 
@CheerBear, I think you might be around too now, just as I'm heading off for more sleep. Hope your day is wonderful too.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Thanks for the chat too @Mazarita I am not going to cut anymore of Toby's hair today - he can see out of his eyes now so the rest can wait. I will give him a bath soon then jump in the shower myself afterwards.
Hi @CheerBear that sounds so wonderful with your LF - that is what christmas is all about CB - family and the joy it brings to the kids - so special. Enjoy your slime making - the kids will love it.
Toby doesn't play with frisbees or balls - he has never been interested in them - he does have his special toys that he plays with - at least I know he is kept occupied when I am not home - giving him planty of toys to play with when he was young has meant he left the furniture and shoes alone and played with his toys instead - he may have been spoilt but it saved the furniture and shoes getting chewed.
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ethSenior Contributor
Morning all! @Mazarita @CheerBear @Zoe7 @Sans911 @Teej @outlander@Bunniekins
@TAB @Sophia1 @Faith-and-Hope @Appleblossom @Carlachris @Dadcaringalone @PeppiPatty and everyone reading here today. Sending all my hope that today is enjoyable and peaceful for all no matter what is happening - celebrations for those who do and self-care for those who don't.
Big night here last night with 10 adults, 2 children and 3 dogs! Had more than usual to drink - punch can be misleading! And then finished the night with a quiet dram of drambui. So only up to supporting posts not composing one myself.
Just found out mum needs to go to hospital this morning. Might be back later.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Hoping your mum is okay @eth and your day is filled with light. Have to get moving myself but will check in across the day when I can
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@eth Merry Christmas eth :) Hoping your mum is okay. Love greenpea xxx
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TABSenior Contributor
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Your well wishes post was very beautiful. @eth
Ha ha about the punch.
Thinking of you, regarding your mother. Hope all is able to be sorted.
Hi to all.
I hope today is peaceful and beautiful and there is some love and goodwill in it for you.
@CheerBear @Zoe7 @Bunniekins @TAB
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