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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
Step one "survive surgery" has worked out 👍🙂 I am reluctant to get too excited and happy as there's a long way to go (and very little has gone smoothly so far) but this news was a biiiiig relief! The wait for that call was intense. Giant phew!
It's been an incredibly long day but one with lots of good, the best being the news above. I also had a couple of appointments that I nearly canceled but was strongly encouraged to go to, so I sucked it up and went (and am so glad I did). I had a well timed and overdue psych appointment which was so helpful, then a GP appointment which was also very helpful. We sorted out a missing referral for an ED clinic for middle and made a really good plan that will hopefully help with my lack of sleep at the moment. I'm off to (hopefully) meet with the social worker at the school shortly who apparently has some good things to share too.
Tired, sooooo tired, but relieved and much more at ease this afternoon 🙂
Thank you oodles for the support through this messy rollercoastery time. ❤ to all
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(Tagging a few who have been keeping up @Mazarita, @Teej, @Faith-and-Hope, @Zoe7, @outlander, @Shaz51 - not meaning to miss anyone 🙂)
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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That is all incredibly good news CB and must be such a relief despite there still being a long way to go. Your strength and courage in the face of all this shines through here @CheerBear and it is inspiring to all of us. Keep putting one foot in front of the other and taking those baby steps - you are doing an amazing job and my heart goes out to you for all that you are struggling through. Sending you lots of hugs and much love 💜💙💚🧡💛
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TeejSenior Contributor
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feeling relieved for you on a few fronts @CheerBear. Hoping the good news continues. 💜🤗
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@CheerBear 😊😊🌻❣💌🌼🤗
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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@CheerBear💖💐🌸🌷🌺❤️️
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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💐🌷🦄🌹🌸🍄❣️
@CheerBear ......
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MazaritaSenior Contributor
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Wonderful news, @CheerBear.
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QueenieSenior Contributor
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Just checking in folks! I've been super busy this last month, I've barely had enough time to catch my breath! Next month is going to be even busier as I have concerts to go to in the space of a week plus a movie I promised I'd go to. I'm hardly ever home anymore!
I must admit when I was doing a spot of early Christmas shopping the other day I saw a collectable figure of the Care Bear @CheerBear and it made me smile thinking of you all. I still don't know how I'll be celebrating my big 4 Oh in January. I want to go to a Comedy Club or something (not just a simple out for dinner). Nobody wants to come though so it's unlikely I'll have a party. You see in the real world, I have only a few friends and they are often very busy in their lives and don't have time for me at all. Oh well, nevermind!
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hey @Queenie! So good to see you.
I find it so hard to imagine you not having many friends and having people be too busy for you. When I think of you I imagine you being heaps of fun and great company and someone I'd like to hang out with. A comedy club sounds like a great way to celebrate. I hope you get there.
Definitely coming up to that extra busy time of the year for many. Love that you thought of us and smiled the other day. It's always great to see you around 🙂
I have a sneaking suspicion that if @Shaz51 or @Zoe7 hear that there's a big birthday in Jan, there may be some kind of celebration here 😉
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