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Just checking in.

Just checking in.

I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.

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I’m not sure if this is ok to write but wanted to respond to @CheerBear. I have a friend who is having the hardest time of life just now. She has been dealt a really difficult, gut wrenchingly hard set of life cards. She is in the middle of lots of big daunting and scary things trying to juggle it all and I’d imagine feeling very alone and full of very mixed emotions pulling her in all directions. I want to tell her what she would tell anyone else going through this. That it is so hard and unfair and that she is doing the very best job she can. That it is ok to lose it and not feel in control at times. I would tell her she is doing amazingly well and that she is courageous and strong. I would tell her that her vulnerability is a strength. I would tell her to breathe and look after herself. I hope that one day when this storm passes she’ll be able to reflect and be proud of her strength and courage. Take good care of you @CheerBear

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So well said @Teej .....

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@Teej

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Thinking of you and sending kindest wishes for the best outcome for your loved one today, @CheerBear. Hugs and gentleness your way.

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Saw a like before and thought I’d just check in @CheerBear. I understand if it’s not a good time to reply. You’ve been in my thoughts today and have been crossing fingers for you all 💜

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❤️❤️ @CheerBear

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Hey @Teej. Thanks for the check in and your thoughts ❤

We got through it all this morning having a really great (all things considered) morning. We then did the really teary just-in-case goodbye as they were hooked up to things and wheeled down to pre-op. We stayed behind in their room having a hug and cry for a few moments before planning on going home to wait. They were then wheeled back in only a few minutes after they left as surgery was canceled for the day. I couldn't believe it. I think my head actually exploded with stress and jumble overload. I said an 'I love you but I cant be here anymore thing' and left in a spin out of feelings. I am proud I made it home as I sat somewhere close to the train station sign staring at it for what felt like ages having it feel impossibly far away and way beyond what my melted snowflaked banana head could manage. It's now booked for tomorrow so we get to do all the nervous feels again 😏

How have you been/how was your day? I have been struggling to keep up here but keeping an eye out when I can.

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@BlueBay ❤ thanks

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Hi CB - no need to reply - just letting you know I am following, thinking about you and holding you in the light @CheerBear Love and hugs to you all

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Thank you heaps @Zoe7. I feel your presence and really appreciate it. Trying to keep up with how things are for you also and really sorry to hear it sounds like the work situation isn't working out as well as you deserve/would like/had planned. Big ❤
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