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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Catch you later @CheerBear, and you hair looks great 
what colours have you tried xx
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
Morning @Shaz51. I've had my hair every colour from black to silver and all the brights in between 🙂 How was your mum? Hope yesterday afternoon went OK 💚
@Teej for you today
💗💕
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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TeejSenior Contributor
I got the rug ripped out from under me @CheerBear. Therapy isn’t going ahead. There is a reason but I can’t write it here suffice to say that none of this was well thought out at all. Just collateral damage really. I found out sitting on the couch that the last psychologist pulled the rug from under me and caused so much distress..........and on the 7th anniversary of my friend telling me what my partner had done. She had caught him on the the first September. This was going to be hard but it gave me a flicker of hope. I really want to turn it all off. I have the very big hopeless feelings and feel destroyed again. So sorry it couldn’t have been better news. 🤬:bomb:🌋
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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TeejSenior Contributor
Yeah. I’m home @CheerBear. I can’t cry. I just want to disappear.
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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TeejSenior Contributor
I can’t do this to you just now @CheerBear. I know you are working hard at climbing out of your deep hole. Im going to sign off for awhile. Please go looking for the good in today instead. Hugs 💜🤗
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CheerBearSenior Contributor
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Hey there @Teej.
I know it's difficult for you at the moment that you're not going to go ahead with the new therapy. Make sure that you do something nice for yourself this afternoon. Take care.
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