Oh geez @eth - I didn't know that - aw - that is a painful memory and an important birthday
You may not have had to register his birth and death but you were far enough along to be considered a bereaved parents - and I know there's a bunch of us here who know - 26 weeks 21 years ago
I am so sorry - I feel for you - so much
My dd was pre-term - I had several miscarriages but earlier - I know the feeling - my teenage son died 30 years ago - and this is not something you ever forget - different milestones - 21st birthday andd 30 years - oh dear
Sending my love
Decadian