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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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TABSenior Contributor
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@utopia That's a good thing @utopia if you can remain unattached emotionally with him otherwise hurt could keep reoccurring adversely effecting your mental health. We can help without getting involved is my point. I probably am not explaining it properly. For me I would rather be alone than treated bad as why should someone else's welfare who doesn't care about me be more important than my own? And I won't allow myself go back to that dark place for no one.
You seem like you have it together which is good and makes me worry less 😊
My daughter was so badly hurt by a partner she tried to take her life. She needs to make sure she does not open up her heart to just anyone or she will never heal.
How is your new job going?
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KurraSenior Contributor
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@Kurra - hoping the surgery on Monday goes well and everything at work turns out for the best. You deserve it. I try and do my best each day and live by that motto you quoted "what will be will be". And I just simply have to accept hoping for the best. Thinking of you 💕
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TABSenior Contributor
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KurraSenior Contributor
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
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