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I thought I'd start a discussion where we can check in with members and use this space to keep in contact. It's a space to be able to say how you really feel and it's a space for the good, the bad and the ugly moments in our lives.
@PeppiPatty What is on the menu for tomorrow night?
Is it casual (I really hope so), evening wear (yuk) or fancy dress (possibly could manage)?
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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@PeppiPatty Arlo looks just like Toby - they could be twins!!!! Adorable - and Arlo is too! LOL
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TABSenior Contributor
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😸 nite to you
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TABSenior Contributor
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Hello Fady @Former-Member😀 Can see you likin' lol
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Unknown userMember
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Morning @TAB, I had probably 9 hours sleep. I was massively depressed, in a self induced hole yesterday. How are you today? 😊
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TABSenior Contributor
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Yeah 'it' happens..least you had good sleep. Am on road today. And eventually twigged re depressed re me well feeling bad about self, rel crapola etc. ready to go. said proper goodbye to brother and kids sorta left seeing olds up in air today well felt had to tell father see again today. Id rather just drive. Think I may. Cant think any less of me. Will claim misunderstanding if anyone ever asks lol. Oh, just made all of that up then lol
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TABSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
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I think that sounds reasonable enough to me @TAB. When I am overwhelmed, it'd probably my style too...to just go, leave. The road is go for perspective too. Others feel it's ok to continually ggoon about their own sense of injustices, etc and say hurtful things like somehow we are entwined in it too. Fact is, it is their deal to own and work through. I become susceptible of late to others stuff, how they feel in their life to affect me. I caught thought on it yesterday. I decided sometimes others are negative for me, and I need to stear clear of them for a while. I dint regret what I said today, because it was true. Others need time to work themselves too.
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Unknown userMember
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Sorry @TAB, a lot of typos. I'm sure u will read between!
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