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Nervous - social interaction

Nervous - social interaction

I’m feeling a bit nervous

another parent from school invited me and a few others to a local brewery tonight

I said yes but Im feeling really anxious and nervous about it

I have never really had ‘friends’

I want to go but I can feel myself getting anxious

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Re: Nervous - social interaction

probably they felt bad for me @tyme

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And why would they feel bad for you? @ArraDreaming

Were all the dads talking together and you were the only one not going?

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I dunno @tyme

maybe they just invited me becwuse they could not because they actually wanted me there
a pity invite

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Watch what will happen cause this is what always happen people get scared away
i start making friends then they just decide I’m too weird for them and they never talk to me again mark my words it will happen again @tyme

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Or, can it also be because they want to get to know you better @ArraDreaming ?

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Don't sabotage it by thinking that way @ArraDreaming . You are you. If they were quick and on their toes, they'd 'get' you. I'd love to hang out with someone like you in real life. You keep the party going.

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Thanks @tyme

i just always think if I even add any value to anyone or if anything I say is even interesting, like whats the point if I’m just a boring old potato, but that’s kind of you @tyme

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Lol. Well from my perspective, I find what you say interesting and of value. @ArraDreaming . I'm not just trying to be nice. If i didn't value what you have to say, I'd stop communicating with you lol. You have to admit that you do come out with gold at times 🙂

Anyway, I'm off now. Will chat later in the week.

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thanks mate appreciate that
MY offline time now too @tyme
talk to you soon

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Gonna try and be pretty strict with my offline time these nights when I come online I gotta soak up the quiet nights over the next few weeks
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