not feeling good

Hi @BlueBay sounds like you have put your feelings aside to provide care for your daughter and grand daughter. Even though you mentioned that you are fragile emotionally it looks like you are strong and competent and brave as a mother and grand mother. They are lucky to have you.

Candycane

Thanks @candycane
I can't show my daughter that I'm struggling. She needs me now so I need to be there for here. I'm not strong I don't feel strong. I'll prob cry when I go to bed tonight. I'm glad I'm seeing my psychologist on Monday. Our lives are going to change now.
I thought they were happy and doing ok but obviously not. My grand daughter is only 5 months old. How bad is that to not have her father with her all the time. I just don't understand. Now I'm getting upset and teary.

Aww @Shaz51 now I'm crying. Thankyou for your kind words.
I'm struggling a bit tonight. Just thinking about things.
I don't know what to do.

I'm angry this morning. My daughter said her partner told her he can't stay because "they are different people and want different things". My daughter wants to get married and have children a house and is very family orientated where he isn't. Doesn't care about family. She had to force him to come over to our house for dinner.
It got me thinking - every one is different when they meet. I am different to my hubby and we think snd want different things in life BUT we worked through these things together and we stay together and married for 32 yrs.
to me this is an easy cop out. He is running away from responsibilities of a dad to his baby and his partner (my daughter). How can this happen. The baby is only 5 months old. Dam him. I'm angry.
I am hurting for my daughter. She can't move in permanently nor enough room in our place. She will stay there and he did say to her he will pay her rent. Let's hope he does.
How can a man a father walk away from his child. I'm struggling.
I want to take my daughter away on a holiday. She has never been away with him. He never took her anywhere not even fir dinner. I will look st a cheap flight and try to save up and go with the bsby even for 4-5 days away. Give her time away. She deserves it. She is a strong woman. I would have broken down but she hasn't unless she does when I'm not around. God I feel for her so much.

Oh, that’s so rough @BlueBay ....., I am sad for you ...., but hopefully they will work it out.

Hi @Faith-and-Hope @Shaz51
I don't think they'll work it out. My daughter said to me this morning that if he wants to come back he'll need to change. And he won't she said he is too stubborn. It's a shame it ended like this. She said he wants to remain friends and see the bsby and give her money.
I am stressing because I'm not sure how my daughter really is. She comes across that she is ok and doesn't bother without him but I'm not so sure. I guess I'll just have to watch her. She is hime niw unoacking her grocery shopping. Then she'll come around. Glad we only live 5 min down the road. And my friend lives in front of her. My daughter lives in a cottage behind my friends house. So at least she has someone she knows close by.
My daughter is only 26. She will find someone else I hope. Snd msybe the next one will test her with love take her out and be family orientated like her.

Hi everyone
My daughter and bsby have just left.
I'm feeling very sad and angry
Feeling shocked at what happened
I feel so much for my daughter
I want to help her financially but I csnt because we're in not a position financially either to help her. Now I'm crying
Why do these things happen?