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not feeling good

not feeling good

At the moment i am not feeling good. i feel like my body is in 'run away mode'. i feel my body is running on a high, my head is so mixed up. i have to go to bed and try to sleep, but don't know if i can.

my hormones are everywhere at the moment; my mood is sky high negative. i can't deal with this anymre. all of a sudden i am not feeling good. i think it is anxiety.

i don't know why i feel like this; i just want to cry but can't becsue everyone is home. i am going to bed. i don't know what is going on. actually maybe it is anxiety because i felt like passing out today.

I went to my GP to have my mirena IUD taken out as I had had enough. But he couldn't find the string, so he sent me for a ultrasound. Had that and the guy said i had two fibroids and a cyst on my ovary. but he couldn't find the string either, so had to have an xray to find the metal piece. they didn't tell me anything. but while waiting i was so anxious i almost passed out.

so now i have to wait for tomorrow when my GP will call me at work and let me know what will happen now. hopefully he can take the mirena out. i don't know.

my body is reacting to my anxiety - i feel so shaky, i need to stop. no point telling anyone at home becasue (a) they won't believe me and (b) they prob wouldn't care.

sorry, i had to tell someone. i feel so alone 😞

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@Former-Member

Im going to have a nice time with A this weekend.

I do understand what you’re saying.

I hope you’re ok. ❤️❤️

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@BlueBay

Thanks @BlueBay . Actually I'm not really okay, but am trying my best to get through it.

Well done on applying for that other job. I wish you every success of course. Although keep in mind that there are a lot of people looking for work right now, and I'm sure @MDT will vouch for that. Job seeking and applying can be very discouraging. But I am super glad that you are keeping your options open by giving it a shot. It sounds as though you are well qualified, and I believe the fact that you are currently employed, also tends to put you in a more favourable light with prospective employers. The job itself appears to be well suited to you with regards to location and convenience. Perhaps the 3 full days per week will suit you better too than your current hours at your present job. So bottom line ... I hope you get it. But if not, then put it down to experience. You know you can do it now, and next time something suitable comes up, then you can apply again. I'm very impressed and proud that you went ahead and applied.

Sherry

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Well done @BlueBay and goudluck.

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Good luck @BlueBay. Even putting in an application is a great step. Hope your day is improving 🌻🌻

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Here if you need me @Former-Member 🌼🌼

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I hear ya @BlueBay
Good on you for applying. That takes guts mate 🙂

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Thanks @Former-Member for your support ❤️

I have thought of you heaps the last week. I wish I could take your pain away.

Hugs and hugs ❤️❤️ Take care

I really appreciate you taking time out to reply to me. Xxx

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@BlueBay Hey BlueBay will have my fingers and toes crossed for you. I really hope you get it. 20 minutes away from home would be fanastic 🙂

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Hi everyone

@Bunniekins @MDT @Molliex @Zoe7 @Former-Member @Owlunar @Gazza75 @Shaz51

im really angry and annoyed

we have a friend who is a retired cop.

We used to get together all the time.

But they were and still are well off. She has her own hair salon business.

Anyway since our daughter moved in eith us I haven’t caught up eith then. And time just goes by very quickly.

This morning hubby me my d her partner and a went out for a coffee. We bumped into them this morning. The reaction I got was terrible. He was so angry and says to me “oh where have you been” like it’s my fault that I haven’t caught up with them.

His wife was ok. But his facial expression and body language was not good. Whether he was angry with his wife I don’t know.

Its a two way thing where friends text each other fir ciffee. Not just me. He was saying that I’m meant to text him.

He can text me too to catch up.

I’m so angry because it shouldn’t just be me that calls. They can too. I’m so over being blamed for not catching up.

Im going to ring his wife and grab her number and mention to her thst he looked very angry. I’m not going to take this as my fault.

If they want to catch up they can call me too. It’s nit meant to be a one way thing.

Anger and frustration

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I know you're angry @BlueBay - and I would be too - I would not like it one bit if someone said something like that to me

But I would let it go - perhaps it would be best if you did too - it's not your fault that you guys haven't been in touch - as you say - they can get in touch with you too

Ask yourself what you would be able to gain by getting into an angry convo about whatever this is about - what can you gain

And more importantly - how would it make you feel?

Yes - it is an unpleasant way for someone to behave - who would want a friend who addressed them in such a manner and yes - time does go fast

I'm sorry that happened

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