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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
So much sister would rather block me on everything ghost me and not show up then even acknowledge that I exist
i don’t know what I did wrong
but I feel so down
thanks heaps i put in the effort and get nothing
I don’t understand
What did I do
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Yes @ArraDreaming ! It's actually a technique I practiced with my therapist too! I had to think of something that would divert my attention from the hurt.
Try it tonight.
I can hear that the negative thoughts of today are still plaguing you mind.
This is a chance to train your brain. Each time the thought comes, sing the Muffin Man...
Do you kids toast marshmallows at the fireplace?
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absolutely freaking not @tyme
even with direct supervision from 2 adults I would never even put the thought into my childrens heads hahahaha
Not saying it’s a bad idea but my kids would make it a bad idea, it may work for some.
When we have a fire outside I have managed to make an extra long marshmallow roasting stick which means they can roast them from a couple metres away 🤣🤣🤣
the way the little one says “oooh FIRE 😈 “ terrifies us.
he used me our cuddly little innocent one until about 3 months ago and full toddlerhood possessed him and he now runs this entire household
He looks like me as a kid, I only have 2 photos of myself as little one and they aren’t even baby pics one I’m about 4 and another im about 7 and he’s spitting image even still @tyme
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