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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
So much sister would rather block me on everything ghost me and not show up then even acknowledge that I exist
i don’t know what I did wrong
but I feel so down
thanks heaps i put in the effort and get nothing
I don’t understand
What did I do
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tymeModerator
Oh no! My nephew drew on the table... wrote his name... then said he didn't do it. I'm thinking, "why would you write your own name?"
The worst thing was when he once turn the oven on! My sister uses the over to store trays, pans etc that she isn't using... that's the prob. We smelt burning, then I realised the oven was on! He turned it on, but then blamed his 1.5 year old sister! KIDS>......
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tymeModerator
You are sooooo right! It takes 5 seconds for the house to turn upside down! @ArraDreaming .
I like everything to be in place. But sister doesn't. It does my head in when I go to her house, but I can't say anything. Today they have trashed both upstairs and downstairs. If I took a photo, you'd see that you can't see the floor.
There are blankets, kid's lounges, oodies, socks, clothes, shoes, toys EVERYWHERE!!!!!
Argh!!!
And lol, your baby spud dragging a texta across the wall...
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tymeModerator
OMG! It's an earworm now! I know what you mean! It's in my head! But my oh my your boys have taste @ArraDreaming
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tymeModerator
I agree it is sooo good but soooo bad @ArraDreaming .
I'm watching it for the 5th time now... I'm singing both this version and the nursery rhyme version...
Yikes... I won't be sleeping.
Come to think of it, did you know that singing such songs is a skill in therapy. As part of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, when a negative thought comes, you picture something like this youtube video and then start singing it? By doing this, you are making connections between a negative thought and a 'good' thought so that your brain learns to accept the 'negative'.
Try it. Each time today's events pop into your head, sing the Muffin Man on Drury Lane lol.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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