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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
So much sister would rather block me on everything ghost me and not show up then even acknowledge that I exist
i don’t know what I did wrong
but I feel so down
thanks heaps i put in the effort and get nothing
I don’t understand
What did I do
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
Hi @tyme
How are you tonight?
Meggle
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tymeModerator
I somehow think it's a bit like me last week. I had an incident and was very upset about it @ArraDreaming . I ended up thinking about it all the time. But I was determined not to let it get be down for an extended period of time.
So I gave myself permission to feel it, then I've now parked it aside as I know I didn't do anything wrong.
And same with you. Allow yourself to feel the hurt, then teach yourself to park it aside.
Awwww. the karaoke machine is out of stock!
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tymeModerator
Hey @Oaktree ,
Hope you are well 🙂
I'm chilling out with everyone here.
Hope you had a pleasant day. I'll be sending you an email shortly... I'm still drafting it up 🙂
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
@tyme
I hope I am not in trouble!!!
I don’t think I have broken any guidelines lately?
Looking forward to hearing from you.
@ArraDreaming
It’s so difficult to not ruminate on things especially when something negative has occurred. Try not to do the whole mind reading thing. Maybe your Sister had something going on for her today. It doesn’t mean it’s a forever thing. Just take it one day at a time. Sorry that you have had a really difficult day!
Meggle
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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