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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
So much sister would rather block me on everything ghost me and not show up then even acknowledge that I exist
i don’t know what I did wrong
but I feel so down
thanks heaps i put in the effort and get nothing
I don’t understand
What did I do
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tymeModerator
She will NEVER forget @ArraDreaming . A young person can make many mistakes. It doesn't mean you have done anything wrong.
I hear it is hurting so badly. At the same time, don't forget the family you DO have with you right now.
Other family members will come back when they see you as a pillar of strength - that you didn't go down the path that they did.
They WILL return.
There are some things we just can't rush.
You are NOT at fault.
Here's a HUGE HUG for you. **HUG
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tymeModerator
It's okay @ArraDreaming not to know.
I hear it is hard to be present with your family. Your emotions are big at the moment, so doing anything else can be very hard.
For tonight, it's not about trying to reason things out, but more so to just get through tonight whether it's a big hug, a cuppa, some footy. The hurt won't disappear, but you'll have a distraction.
This is the best time to give your boys a hug.
Hearing them call you "dad" will fill a void in your heart that your sister will never be able to.
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
@ArraDreaming
Your kids sound adorable, you are lucky to have them! They obviously love you.
Meggle
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tymeModerator
Treasure those moments @ArraDreaming . Live for those moments.
Yes, things will hurt, but don't dwell on them or you'll miss your kids singing Frozen.
Hugs.
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