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Panda2Contributor
Hi I'm new to this forum.
Adult son has been hospitalized before for delusions.
He is expressing paranoid delusions again. He won't connect with help, has stopped taking his medication, and is asking us for help but only for irrational things. Not sure what to do
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tymeModerator
Hi @Panda2 ,
Firstly, welcome to the forums. Thank you for posting and sharing what is happening for you son right now.
It sounds like your son really does need support right now. Do you feel he is a danger to himself right now?
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Panda2Contributor
As of today he is starting to message and talk to us. He has been calm but delusional earlier, then angry when we suggested any GP appointment, then asked for a visit later. So as of tonight I have some hope
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tymeModerator
It sounds like seizing the moment @Panda2 . When he has the delusions, it is his condition speaking, not himself.
Just hold on there. We are sitting with you.
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Panda2Contributor
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tymeModerator
@Panda2 - It can be so confronting speaking to a somewhat irrational person who you know is not well.
I hope your son gets the support he deserves.
At the same time, do you have supports for yourself as a carer? I can see how this could be a stressful time for you.
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amber22Senior Contributor
Hey there @Panda2
Thank you for reaching out and for posting here on the SANE Forums. It can be a tricky thing reaching out for support when you need it, but I am so glad that you have. Welcome!
It can be incredibly difficult trying to navigate caring for our loved ones that may suffer with complex mental health. You seem like you really care and want the best for son, but is also important to remember to take care of yourself as his carer (informally or formally).
I've linked some past Topic Tuesdays that we have done on caring for carers and the support that is available for you (even as an informal support in your sons life). I hope that they are of some help for you. There is also a few questions targeted on taking care of yourself as a carer, and navigating becoming a carer of a family member with complex mental health.
Sending lots of hugs,
Amber22
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Hello @Panda2
I hope your meeting with your son went as well as possible given all the circumstances.
My best suggestion, is not to argue with or buy into anything you believe is delusional thinking.
However keeping doors open ... for help seeking or him connecting ... and providing only help you deem sensible and reasonable given the whole picture.... eg buy a tent or provide a temporary room and food if he is homeless... stuff like that ...we can only do our best...
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