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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hey all,
I keep losing myself, I recently lost a family member to cancer and had the funeral and have been struggling for a few weeks while grieving and dealing with a few other things in my life,
I just don’t know how to help myself while im stuck in this loop. I have a lot of other stuff on my plate that I’m trying to manage and was just trying to find a space to where I can express it.
im safe
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GlistenSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 A cat as well as bunnies!
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Yeah @Glisten - I got a cat, 2 rabbits and 2 fish tanks 😁
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GlistenSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 You got a Petting Zoo 😆
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hahahahaah, feels like it @Glisten ,
they mean a lot to me though 😁
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GlistenSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 very cute 🐰 🐰
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hey @amber22 @Glisten @Jynx @TideisTurning @Patches59 @Snowie @Shaz51 @Jay5 @Meowmy @Meggle @Jay5 @outlander @TAB @Zoe7 @greenpea @Anastasia @Judi9877 @Jacques @hanami - How are you all?
I am having an average morning, I feel like a burden and a mistake. My emotions are still everywhere, my life feels like it’s crumbling into little bits and it’s hard staying strong.
im safe
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RiverSealModerator
Hey @Fluttershy1
Thank you for your post and for sharing how you are feeling with the community!
It sounds like you are going through a tough time at the moment and having some negative thoughts about yourself. I'm sure you are not a burden and a mistake and you have a lot of connections here on the Forums who I'm sure wouldn't think that either. There is a lot of worth and value in that and you also demonstrate your strength and resilience by posting about how you feel. What have you done previously when you have felt like this that might help you now?
Sitting with you and your thoughts today.
Take care
RiverSeal
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
I’m listening to music and playing games @RiverSeal - I might go for a drive or something.
can you sit and chat with me @RiverSeal?
am safe
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RiverSealModerator
Thanks for letting me know that you are safe @Fluttershy1 🙂
What music are you listening to today? I have been getting into Taylor Swift and loving her music!! I also love G Flip and they are probably my favorite artist ever!!
How's the weather where you are this weekend?
Take care
RiverSeal
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@RiverSeal - Taylor swift, Billie eilish, Ed Sheeran, Sam smith, Tate McRae, Lewis capaldi!
The weather is nice here, it’s sunny.
warm but it can get a little hot
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