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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hey all,
I keep losing myself, I recently lost a family member to cancer and had the funeral and have been struggling for a few weeks while grieving and dealing with a few other things in my life,
I just don’t know how to help myself while im stuck in this loop. I have a lot of other stuff on my plate that I’m trying to manage and was just trying to find a space to where I can express it.
im safe
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JynxModerator
@Fluttershy1 that means you have every right to curl up in bed as long as you need! And maybe the SW can just chill with you in your room haha.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Yep lol @Jynx - things are just rough atm
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JynxModerator
@Fluttershy1 yeah sounds like a very bumpy patch for you. I am sorry it's so hard, but I fully believe in your ability to get through to the other side!
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
I’m struggling again @Jynx - am safe. Just not doing great
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JynxModerator
Anything you can do to change things up @Fluttershy1? Make a cuppa, change the music or lighting, or pop on a comfort tv show?
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
I’m watching my fish @Jynx
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JynxModerator
Aww cute @Fluttershy1 that sounds super soothing!
I'm off for tonight hun, but another mod will be along soon if you need. Rest up hun, see you again soon 💜
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Can you tag them @Jynx - sleep well give the kitties a pat from me. Pterodactyl on erk erk night
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hi @Shaz51 - how are you?
gentle hugs
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JynxModerator
Not sure who is on next @Fluttershy1 but tagging @moderator does the trick. Rest well!
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