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NEED HELP WITH RAGE!

NEED HELP WITH RAGE!

Ok I'm about to smash something over my bosses head! He is 76 yrs old completely lost his shit and constantly blaming people for things they havent done and this morning it was my turn. I'm getting ridiculed , told I do nothing when he has no proof and something he blamed me for had nothing to do with me but if I try to say anything he just yells at me and thats one of my triggers!

God I have gone for a walk, I have tried to calm down but my rage is just going out of control and if I'm not carfeul by the end of th day I will be out of a job if act out! If I could I would tell him where to shove his fricken job but I'm not in a position to do so. I'm fricken HR and he doesnt believe in HR. I know if I wanted to I could easily take them to unfair dissmissal or bullying etc but I dont need that stress. Just when I get on top of myself he comes back from overseas, he has been away for 1 month and then yesterday the second he came in shit starts - I'm not the only one at my wits end but thats all I care about right now.

Sorry Im just venting trying to get out my rage- grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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Re: NEED HELP WITH RAGE!

You are going great @Change123 my friend

sending you hugs

and hope you have a good night sleep tonight

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Hi @Shaz51@Appleblossom@PeppiPatty

Just thought I would check in and say that I have been coping with work, they are still idiots but now I just feel sorry for them and keep to myself a whole lot more. They still havent done my perfornace review for 2016, they put off the ones they hate to do last. I know my boss wont give me a good one as discussed before but I have prepared myself for when it happens and have decided not to bother commenting as these people dont understand or "get it" so they can say what they want. I just want to ensure I keep my job until I find something close by - unfortunately jobs are not around still but thats ok I will cope.

Anyway I can really see by looking back through my post how much they use to get to me but that wont happen anymore - work is just work!

Take care all

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Hey Hello @Change123

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Re: NEED HELP WITH RAGE!

Glad you are clear about that @Change123

Sometimes bosses are not the best people, so its important to put them in perspective.

Hope you do get a better position soon, but in the meantime, find ways to self care

Being triggered is wearing on us.

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