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Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

From 13th - 19th November 2016 is Perinatal Depression and Anxiety Awareness Week.

For this Topic Tuesday we will be joined by PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Australia)

Becoming a parent is a major life transition: 24/7 responsibilities for another life, sleep deprivation and new stressors on relationships. For those with a history of mental illness it is a particularly vulnerable time. Anxiety or depression previously well-managed can become out of control, and shame about ‘failing as a parent' or not enjoying motherhood can prevent help-seeking.

What many people don’t know is that perinatal anxiety and depression is common, does not discriminate and has many faces. It is thought that 1 in 10 mums and 1 in 20 dads experience depression during pregnancy and 1 in 7 mums and 1 in 10 dads after the birth of their baby. Anxiety rates are thought to be higher with many parents experiencing both anxiety and depression. So many parents we speak with wear a mask of coping, underplay symptoms on routine screening, and even hide their struggles and fears from their partner and GP.

What we know is that the earlier treatment is obtained the quicker recovery and that recovery is not just possible it happens everyday! It is so important not to suffer alone.

Join us for Topic Tuesday where we will be talking about how to take care of your emotional and mental health during pregnancy and after birth, what to look out for, when and where to get help, and what that help might look like.

We look forward to speaking with you from 7 pm AEDT.

Two things you can do now

1) Read the blog '5 tips for good perinatal mental health'

2) Hit the 'Like' button below to receive an email reminder on the night

3) Can't make the session? Leave your question below.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Hi @Pocoyo

These forums are public - they are accessible for everyone. However, they are anonymous and we don't allow people to share identifiable information (full name, contact details, emails, place of employment etc).

We do not share your details that you've used to sign up with to anyone - so your email, for example, is not accessible to other members.

While anyone can view the posts here, they must become a member to post in threads.

I hope this helps!

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Hello @NikNik, xx

and stepmums like me

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

A massive thank you to all of you who got involved tonight. We have really appreciated your openness in sharing your story - we hope you got something out of tonight.

A big thank you to @PANDA & @Former-Member for their wisdom and addressing people's questions and concerns.

Don't forget - if you are a parent and want to talk to someone directly about your emotional wellbeing PANDA is a great organisations to contact:

Mon to Fri, 10am - 5pm AEST

1300 726 306

Be sure to check out their website http://www.panda.org.au/ which has a heap of great resources.

Finally, if you have a question that you didn't get to ask tonight, please feel free to start a new discussion within the Forums and post your question. You will get responses from other members who have been in similar situations and if you @mention PANDA (ie: put an @ symbol before the username 'PANDA') they will get back to you.

THANK YOU!

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

It has been so wonderful chatting with you all tonight, and hearing a little about the difficulties you have faced and the courage you have shown.

Posting on forums like these and sharing some of what you have been through is such a brave way to keep the conversation going, or getting it started.

We know that talking and sharing is key to recovery, and we hope that the stories shared tonight tell anyone who is having a rough time that they really are not the only one.

Help is available, so please reach out to us here at PANDA if you need to speak to someone or don't know where to start, by calling 1300 726 306.

Thank you again to all the contributors tonight, @Pocoyo, @Shaz51, @Appleblossom, @Newmama, @2angels and @MisguidedDreamr.

xx

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Thankyou @Pocoyo, @Shaz51, @Appleblossom, @Newmama, @2angels, @MisguidedDreamr for sharing your stories and helping those who might be experiencing similar things. I suppose what stands out to me is that mental illness at any time is difficult but when it is combined with pregnancy and early parenthood the gap between expectation and reality can be great, impacting on relationship wtih partner, baby, self... and often even the recovery journey.

What we do know is that perinatal anxiety and depression is common, it does not discriminate, it has many faces (including the mask of coping) and the earlier help is sought the faster recovery (although recovery can be two steps forward, one step back).

A final note is that if you are struggling please speak with somone: a trusted friend, family member, GP or your health nurse. Help is available.

PANDA National Helpline 1300 726 306 (10am - 5pm Monday to Friday, AEDT)

www.panda.org.au

www.howisdadgoing.org.au

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

@NikNik is there any way I can change my nickname? The one I have used can be linked back to me (sorry)

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Yep @Pocoyo
just email team@saneforums.org with a new username & I will change that right away!

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