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Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

From 13th - 19th November 2016 is Perinatal Depression and Anxiety Awareness Week.

For this Topic Tuesday we will be joined by PANDA (Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Australia)

Becoming a parent is a major life transition: 24/7 responsibilities for another life, sleep deprivation and new stressors on relationships. For those with a history of mental illness it is a particularly vulnerable time. Anxiety or depression previously well-managed can become out of control, and shame about ‘failing as a parent' or not enjoying motherhood can prevent help-seeking.

What many people don’t know is that perinatal anxiety and depression is common, does not discriminate and has many faces. It is thought that 1 in 10 mums and 1 in 20 dads experience depression during pregnancy and 1 in 7 mums and 1 in 10 dads after the birth of their baby. Anxiety rates are thought to be higher with many parents experiencing both anxiety and depression. So many parents we speak with wear a mask of coping, underplay symptoms on routine screening, and even hide their struggles and fears from their partner and GP.

What we know is that the earlier treatment is obtained the quicker recovery and that recovery is not just possible it happens everyday! It is so important not to suffer alone.

Join us for Topic Tuesday where we will be talking about how to take care of your emotional and mental health during pregnancy and after birth, what to look out for, when and where to get help, and what that help might look like.

We look forward to speaking with you from 7 pm AEDT.

Two things you can do now

1) Read the blog '5 tips for good perinatal mental health'

2) Hit the 'Like' button below to receive an email reminder on the night

3) Can't make the session? Leave your question below.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Hi @MisguidedDreamr, you are so right, it is hard for others to know what is really happening when you wear that mask of coping. It sounds like you knew you were not well enough to leave but you also were not able to really let the staff know... when you are told you are OK but you feel anything but OK that sense of failure can develop a life of its own.

The sad thing is this gets in the way of accessing the help you need. You are brave and bold @MisguidedDreamr and your daughter is very lucky to call you 'mum'. xx

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Hello @Kurra

good question that i am wondering about too @PANDA, @Former-Member

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

We've had such an interesting and honest conversation so far. We really appreciate those who have shared their experience (some for the first time!). I guarantee that by even asking the question, you are helping many others who are watching this forum who have the same question.

We have about 15 mins left - so if you have questions, please feel free to post them now 🙂

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Hi @Kurra, thanks so much for your post.

PANDA supports mums, dads, and the extended family of those who are struggling with perinatal anxiety and depression by providing emotional support on the phone, and guidance on how best to support those in your life with PNDA.

If you are caring for an adult child and finding that it is affecting your mental health, you can call the Carer Advisory Line on 1800 242 636 and get advice on services and emotional support.

I hope this answers your question!

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Aye Aye @Kurra

I wished I had some support for my relationship with my daughter.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

It can be so hard to deal with things alone, @Appleblossom.

I'm sorry to hear you have had this experience.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Thank you @Former-Member, @PANDA for the information

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

Great referral for Carer Advisory Line @Former-Member
Sometimes I think we don't see ourselves, or classify ourselves as 'carers' we are just mums or dads - so it's important to recognise that organisations that refer to 'carers' are relevant for all of us!

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

There certainly does need to be more awarenss @MisguidedDreamr. Pregnancy can be a vulnerable time for both women and men and open conversations about emotional and mental health (in addition to physical health) can make a world of difference.

Forums like this are awesome in providing a space for real conversations. Thanks to everyone for sharing tonight. It has been a wonderful experience.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Emotional wellbeing for parents // 15 Nov. 7pm AEDT

One last question: are these forums public or private?
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