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Anna223Casual Contributor
Hi people.
I am feeling so anxious and afraid of facing another Christmas without my children. I don’t know how to get through another year. Also nye, I isolate myself due to the stigma and emotional pain of missing my kids.
I feel so lonely and and also tired of it all. Its just unbearable. I need lots of support at this time and I don’t know how to find it.
Thanks
In response to: Facing Christmas and nye alone
FloatingFeatherSenior Contributor
Hi @Hope0011,
I hope you are okay. I understand what you mean about not wanting to see 'happy families'. It can be triggering and upsetting at this time of year for some people, particularly if you are already feeling vulnerable. A close family member of mine feels very triggered by `happy families' in general. As such they don't engage in any type of social media as they find it to upsetting.
I think its a really good idea that you jump on the share a cuppa thread on Christmas Day and New Years Day. I also wanted to say I think you seem really kind. I have noticed a few posts you have written to other members on the forums - you are really empathetic, understanding and supportive. We are lucky to have you as a member 🙂
Warm regards,
FloatingFeather
In response to: Re: Facing Christmas and nye alone
Hope0011Senior Contributor
Ohhh @FloatingFeather you have bought tears to my eyes with your kind words. Thank you.
This forum is a really special space to not only get support but to also give it to others going through a tough time.
In response to: Re: Facing Christmas and nye alone
Shaz51Senior Contributor
Hello and sending you lots of hugs @Hope0011 , @Anna223 , @FloatingFeather , @hanami , @Historylover
🥰
In response to: Re: Facing Christmas and nye alone
FloatingFeatherSenior Contributor
Hi @Shaz51,
Sending lots of hugs back - hope you are well and the week is being kind to you ❤️
FloatingFeather
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