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Hey @Jynx

How are you today?

Not too shabby @Birdofparadise8, have had a rather quiet day at home. My kitten just got desexed so I've been on carer duty to ensure she doesn't mess up her stitches. How are you?

How many pets do you have @Jynx?

I had my second day of uni today, which was good.

I had my nutrition class in the morning and psychology after lunch.

My moods have been pretty flat all afternoon, which sucks.

@Birdofparadise8 two kitty cats - they're half-sisters, and both very full of mischief hehe. Do you have pets? You're in uni accom yeah? Guessing no pets there, but back with your folks?

Oh nice, getting into the swing of things I hope. Feeling flat is no fun tho. Did you learn anything cool in your new classes?

Aww cute @Jynx

No, none here and none at home.

My parents don't like them or are allergic.

The last time I had a pet was when I was in prep, and it was a fish lol.

@Birdofparadise8 aww true. It's a pretty full-on pile of responsibility, buuuut worth it for the cuddles and companionship. If you could own a pet, would you one day? Do you reckon you'd go for a catto or a doggo, or something else?

I do like small dogs, and only small @Jynx

I do have a bit of a fear of dogs.

Totally fair @Birdofparadise8 especially if you haven't grown up around them. Dogs need training, it's absolutely vital. Most of the time, big dogs are suuuuper friendly, whereas little dogs can sometimes be quite feisty. Though I've read that it's because a lot of little dog owners don't train them well enough, because it doesn't seem like they have to cos they can just pick the dog up lol.

I think dogs are higher maintenance than cats - training is one thing (and pretty full on), but also walks every day and a lot more companionship. Leaving a dog home alone is just cruel. It's cos they're pack animals by nature. Cats are more solitary hunters, so they're pretty chill if they're left alone. They don't need as much training, don't need walks, and sleep a lot of the day. You can probably tell I'm a cat person haha. But I do love dogs too - always so full of joy.

Would you ever take steps to help you get past your fears?

Yeah I know a lot of work, hey.

Mmm I'm not sure. I think my mum rubbed off on me with the dog one @Jynx