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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @creative_writer

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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That's good to hear @outlander

Hi @creative_writer, I hope you're feeling better today.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, physical pain-wise, yes. Not really better in terms of MH. I've spent the morning moping around. I hope you are well today

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Oh I'm sorry @creative_writer

I'm alright just been doing some study on the musculoskeletal system which is interesting.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, I also broke up with my counsellor, I hate it when people assume things about me, and I also don't like it when mental health professionals judge their clients. She labelled a client as negative during my therapy session, so that also put me off trusting her. Now I only have a monthly psychologist and pdoc, and reaching the end of the guided service. I can reach out to the counselling service again and see if they can match me with someone else, I just don't know how accommodating they will be. I'm sick of people saying they won't judge, but then they do

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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Oh, that sucks @creative_writer

I know how hard it is when you have to leave support, which has happened to me so many times in the past year.

I hope they can find someone for you soon.

How do you get to see your pdoc monthly? I haven't seen him in like three months. My appointment is on the 14th of August.

The GS is soo good, right? I finished up with them a couple of months as weel. I miss it a lot. They might be able to help you find someone.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, it really depends on the pdoc's availabilities and how often they want to see you. Mine thought 5 weeks was the ideal, I think he wants to monitor me because I was really suicidal earlier this year. I was actually seeing him more frequently during the really rough patch

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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lol, mine didn't even care when I told him I had a plan @creative_writer

I really need to find someone else.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Birdofparadise8, I'm sorry, I hope you are able to find a new pdoc. Have you been able to get a referral from your GP?

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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She made one when I first asked about it. I could call the practice and ask if they would send it to me @creative_writer.

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