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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i have a couple of severe medical conditions @Birdofparadise8 they just take a fair bit of management and learning to live with.

no i cant sell her, shes to old so the next step would be to put her to sleep when the time comes.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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oh okay sorry @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its ok @Birdofparadise8

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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I'll be back soon. I'm just going to have a shower before I get ready for bed @outlander @tyme.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ok @Birdofparadise8 im still at work for a couple of hours. have a couple of duties i need to do now

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tymeModerator

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Are you just simply too kind @outlander ???? Are you one to practice assertiveness when it's needed?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Don’t use that against me lol @tyme

I’m still learning to do all this but horses are a big part of my life even if I’m not enjoying them. They’re just a chore atm but heading into the new year I’ll be stepping back from doing horses that aren’t my own

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tymeModerator

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I'm just concerned that it seems like everyone just says, "Oh, Outlander can do it" "Outlander can do it"....there's only so much 1 person can do. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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That’s pretty much the way it is @tyme everything gets shoved onto me too. I’ve always been the one to have to step up. It’s one of the things my therapist and I have just started talking about and how I didn’t have a childhood because I was to busy having to grow up fast and take on to many responsibilities

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor

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That must be hard @outlander

Is there a way to step back

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