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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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nurses are constantly under the pump @Birdofparadise8 try not to take it personally

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I know so are we @outlander

Anyway better go talk later.

Have a good day.

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have a good shift @Birdofparadise8

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They are going to have a meeting with my colleague on Tuesday which is good. But it’s right when I’m working with her and they are going to mention all the names of the people that have complained against her. So after that she will be coming out and working with me and I feel she will take it out on me and be supper pissed off @outlander.

Im not working on Friday the 28th I’m panicking I have my plan and all that I was prepared for it but now I’m working I don’t know.

I don’t know why this is making me upset. I’m on my lunch break and trying not to cry.

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Hey @Birdofparadise8 ,

I'm catching up on what has been happening, and it sounds like you feel you are going to bear the brunt of things?

I'm wondering if this can be raised as part of the conversation with your manager before hand? Or, if you are in the meeting, then for you put that concern on the table with the colleague?

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its good that the manager is actually going to do something about it @Birdofparadise8 sounds like the same person has had a couple of people complain not just you.

maybe speak to your manager about your concerns with your shift and feeling as if she will take it out on you. i hope she doesnt though

whats significant on friday the 28th? wasnt that your psychologist appointment/ are you concerned you cant work and see your psychologist?

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Yes very much so I’m really worried @tyme

Especially with my suicidal thoughts it’s just going to make everything way worse.

Im not aloud to go

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@outlander wrote:

speaking of sane helpline, @Jynx do you know if the webchat part will be up and running again soon?


Hey friend, thought I'd jus reply to this. I am actually uncertain about chat. I know it's a work in progress but I think there's some major overhaul happening. I'll definitely pass your query on, and I'm guessing as soon as we have news on a timeline we will make a forums-wide announcement about it or something. I know it's tough to not have chat available, so really appreciate everyone's patience and understanding 💜

How you travelling this afternoon anyhow @outlander?

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I told her today about it and I said it will be me that will take it on once she comes back @outlander.

Im panicking.

My suicidal thoughts are more than just thoughts. I’m so messed up right now I’m crying and I need to go back to work at the same time.

I will still be able to see my psych before work.

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what is significant about the 28th? @Birdofparadise8
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