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Not Coping

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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🥰 @Jynx

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you have your supports and safety plan in place @Birdofparadise8 try and utilise those where needed

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It's a good thing it helped last time though I was basically threatened that if I didn't call by a certain time, they would call the police. So I hope it won't go that far, but if it does, that's what will happen. I don't really want that, but if it keeps me safe, I will call them.

I did ask her if she could put a note in the crisis management plan about that and the five senses. I don't find it helpful when I'm in a crisis.

OMG, I would never hang up on them. That's so rude. They would tell my regular as they would have my file and all that @Jynx

I will speak to her on Saturday just to check in and chat about work and where my suicidal thoughts are at. Annoyingly I won't be able to talk to her on Tuesday when I would need her the most with work, the plan I'm creating, but oh well, I'll get anyone, I suppose. That night is going to be so hard. Well, the rest of the week as well.

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Other than my aunt and uncle, I do @outlander

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thats a good thing @Birdofparadise8

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That I don't have them @outlander

They have well and truly left now they would be on the plan.

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No I meant it’s good you use your safety plan and supports @Birdofparadise8

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Oh okay yeah that is good @outlander

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Haha @Birdofparadise8 okay maybe not hang up! But let them know if it's something that won't work - but yeah if they can access your file you could ask them to do that.

I hope you can feel proud of yourself for the initiative and the steps you've taken to ensure that there's so many safety nets all around you. That takes guts, seriously.

Sucks you can't talk to her on Tuesday, but sounds like you are pretty set on calling KHL anyway. Crisis lines are also always there - and SANE's phone line is open till 8pm as well; don't know if you call them much but the counsellors there are a super lovely bunch.

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Yeah I don't think I'll do that @Jynx

Um not really I didn't want to be in this position to begin with.

Yeah if I had finished work earlier, I could have. No, I don't I did use the GS but that finished a few months ago. I don't finish work till 10 pm so that won't work. And I'm not calling lifeline that is a bad idea. The last time I did that the lady told me to walk around my house and I'll be fine.

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