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Not Coping

Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor08 Nov 2022, 6:51 pm AEDT

Not Coping

Hey everyone how are you all?

@RiverSeal @Shaz51 @NatureLover @tyme @Former-Member @Eve7 @Former-Member @amber22 @Jynx @FloatingFeather

I'm not doing great at all today. I'm feeling down. I also keep beating myself up for everything and feel like I'm just failing. I need a break from everything. It's getting so hard that I don't know how to keep going anymore especially since I can't talk to anyone around me as they are leaving me or don't understand.

Hope you don’t mind me reaching out I just really need a chat and though I could come on here and vent and talk for a bit.

Thank you

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor16 July 2023, 1:53 pm AEST

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I don't even know if I can do it. I'm not even dressed or anything. I'm just sitting here crying now @outlander.

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor16 July 2023, 1:58 pm AEST

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Today or in general @creative_writer?

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creative_writerSenior Contributor16 July 2023, 2:15 pm AEST

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@Birdofparadise8, motivation has been bad lately in general. My MH took a hit from flashbacks 😞

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor16 July 2023, 2:17 pm AEST

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It's so hard without motivation. What's the point? I don't see why I should do anything or care about it.

I hope your flashbacks have settled now, @creative_writer.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor16 July 2023, 2:58 pm AEST

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@Birdofparadise8, I know it’s hard right now, but there is always hope. Many people bounce back from rough patches 💖

The flashbacks settled, but it wasn’t great since I didn’t have them for a while, and they decided to turn up to my door step uninvited

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Birdofparadise8Senior Contributor16 July 2023, 3:05 pm AEST

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I just hope I can come back, @creative_writer. I seem to go one step forward and 1000 steps back.

I've got dressed, did my skincare routine and am now off to the supermarket.

Tonight for dinner I have fish and vegs, that will do me for tomorrow as well. Then for Tuesday and Wednesday, I will have chicken and fried rice or spinach and riccota pasta baked it depends on how long the chicken takes to defrost. Then depending on which one I do or don't do will be for Thursday and then lunch Friday as my parents are coming back so I won't need to cook.

I better get going before this little bit of motivation goes. I hope it says so I can cook the zucchini slice and dinner. I'll probably crash when I come back and cry.

Mmm, that's tricky. I'm sorry, I don't really know what to say as I haven't experienced them myself.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor16 July 2023, 4:53 pm AEST